And another thing....
Husbands and wives are a team. When you get married, you FORSAKE all others. You've got each other's back, right?
ANY activity that one is doing that is emotionally harmful or hurtful to the other, must stop. Logic goes out the window, here.
"Well, it's my right to go out wih my buddies on the weekend and party - I'm not cheating, I'm not doing anything wrong."
No, you're not - except you're hurting your wife's feelings by not spending time with her. Your wife's feelings COMES FIRST. Period.
It doesn't matter that what you're doing is "not wrong," it's still hurting your wife. Address that! Come to a compromise!
Anyway....that's what's going on here, in my opinion.
It doesn't matter that if what the wife is doing is completely innocent - it makes her husband uncomfortable, and thus, needs to stop.
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