[GirlTrouble]

Thanks for the quick response "Dr."

Here's the thing. As others are pointing out, looking weak and jeleaous is not exactly the best way to inspire her admiration, if she is indeed being flirty. I don't want to make her do anything without my knowledge and I really don't want to make her take some "stand" on how she's allowed to have male friends or something.

The suggestion about taking the two of them out somewhere and looking cool seemed OK, except that she has never met the guy, so it would be like I was encouraging her to get to know him!

How do I put a stop to it without seeming like an insecure douche? Honestly I am not that afraid of the guy, I just think it's risky to pretend nothing's going on.