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A coworker became a Big Sister a few months ago, and both she and the child are enjoying it a lot.

The Big Sister organization (would guess it operates similarly) does give her some freebies. Local city/county owned attractions, such as the zoo, nature center, some park board activities, city pools in summer are free. They gave her $50 to spend on the little girl for back to school.

Actually, the organization went out of it's way to let my coworker know that spending a lot of money is not necessary (or even necessarily desirable.) What they are looking for is someone who would want to spend time with the kid, doing fun things, and serving as a role model/mentor.

In terms of time, she usually spends one week day evening with the little girl, and tries to get in some time on the weekend. If she or the family have plans, they pass on the weekend.

She went through a very rigorous interview and screening process. An interview at the Big Sisters' office, a home visit, they checked her references, and did a criminal background check.

After six months, the little sis can overnite with the big sis, so they are looking forward to a "girly" bunking party. Would guess the brothers would go for camping, OD'ing on video games, a sporting event, etc.

She is very happy she did it, and finds it very rewarding. If you like kids and have the time, go for it.