Re: Post a confession here
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I've had talks with my wife about having some level of an open marriage but she doesn't think she could ever be okay with it.
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How were you able to broach this subject without her getting all pissed off about it?
-McGee
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Very delicately... it very much had to be a hypothetical discussion, nothing like "there's this other woman I want to [censored]..."
We had a pretty open relationship before we decided to get married, and she understands (and doesn't really mind) that I still have lust for other women.
We're pretty open about sex... she knows I jerk off to porn and we sometimes watch together, and she knows my ultimate fantasy is to have 2 women suck me off at once... but she doesn't think she could ever go through with it or be okay with it in reality.
Basically, she acknowledges and understands the love/lust distinction for guys, but she still doesn't think she could deal with it, even if I was totally honest about it.
And she was a little pissed off after we talked about it.
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