Re: Found out my roomate\'s GF used to be a mega-ho
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If he is a good friend, I don't see how not telling him could even be an option. If he is not a good friend, or if he pisses you off along the way, get drunk, then call him, on there 1 year marriage anniversary.
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Exactly. I honestly believe you should bring it up w/ her first and more or less force her into being the one to tell him. If she refuses, it is your duty as a close friend. Many on this board will say, "let it be," but what happens if they do get married and then divorced a year later due to infidelity? You're going to have to live w/ it on your conscience that the signs were on the wall, unbeknownced to your friend. You could've saved him some long term grief, but instead chose to keep your mouth shut to prevent rocking the boat.
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