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...but he HAS to try.

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His first step should probably be to try to find out what is actually going on.

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While I'm sure this girl owes OP several apologies over whatever the story is.

I think its important to the situation that the OP sees his own need to apologize to her for his actions here.

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he kicked a door and left the apartment (smart move, very!) once he basically confirmed his babby momma was cheating on him. WTF kind of apology does he owe?

again, KICKED A DOOR. do you guys realize how much it hurts to have someone you care about betray you in the most intimate of ways?

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Yes I do.

and while I was wronged in some big ways, I also WRONGED in the middle of it.

Their [censored] behavior doesn't justify ours.

Theirs is wrong.
OURS is wrong.

He may not have done anything HORRIBLE wrong

but if any reconciliation here is to take place
(and MUST take place for the kid's sake)
OP has to apologize too.

Once the agner subsides a little, this will hopefull be more clear.

disagree if you want. I feel like I have a moral point, and am not going to get into an arguement over it.

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Ex-mrs. sekrah ?