[goofyballer]

I disagree. It's not like I'm talking at full volume in a live game so that the dude at the other end of the table can hear what I'm saying about him, or even that I'm talking about him at all. For all he knows I'm talking to my friend about the San Francisco Giants being the most awesome baseball team on the planet.

If me and my friend knew Algonquian, would talking in the table chat be more acceptable? So the dude sees two people having a conversation, but has no idea what's going on in it. Is that really any different?