Re: She left me
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Nevertheless you may be right. I don't think it's very productive to try and find out exactly what happened. If she cheated on me, we have no chance, and sooner or later I'll find out. I'd rather just try to deal with her as someone I want to stay with forever...If that changes, so be it.
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Hey GA,
Bad times, dude. I feel for ya. We all have to learn painful lessons in life. Why is that? Why can't we just learn from the mistakes from others? The reason is because when we are young and idealistic we don't believe that the world works like that or that people could behave in a certain way, particularly people that we love.
From your posts and from the few interactions that we've had you sound like a good guy. Don't make the mistake of assuming that somebody else holds to your own moral beliefs. The reality is that they usually don't. Take the advice of posters here who have been through a divorce very carefully. You may think that your wife is a special unique flower but the truth could well be otherwise.
And [censored] is completely right. You must have your own power here. Otherwise your life is going to be like being stuck in a tornado.
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