Re: She left me
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And the reason she feels this way is that whenever the OP touches her, she feels guilty about what she's doing. Many women can only be intimate with one man at a time. Guys are better at separating sex from intimacy, but most women cannot.
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I think Hopey is dead on. I saw the same kind of thing with one of my sisters and also with a friend of mine. They were both having affairs but boy they did not want to admit it.
I read something interesting once about women and divorce. It said when women finally announce they want out of a marriage it has usually been decided for a long time. Guys often think it is a starting point to clean up their act when in fact it is usually the ending point and cleaning up their act is futile. For women, counseling is often pointless; their minds are already made up. They may go through the motions to put on a good show for the family but it is often disingenuous.
I'm really sorry GA, I think the guys may be right about her having an affair. You should just call her on it because you deserve to be treated with more respect and consideration.
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