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I've always thought gentle nudging together would do the trick. "Hey, baby-sugarcakes-pie, let's go to the gym together. When do you think we should go?"

Do whatever cardio she wants. You won't fool her, but gently giving her the message is part of the point.
-Sam

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for the "together" thing, try actvities liike hiking, or even a walk in the park if you or she is really out of shape. maybe even suggest (or book it as a surprise) a vacation to a warm (swimsuit) place.

the thing is to give her the incentive to work out/get in shape on her own. when she realizes that she can't make it around the park without losing her breath, r when she goes bikini shopping in the tent department, she'll be motivated, most likely. once she gets in the habit, she's more likely to stick to it.