[TPupAZ]

Microbet asked

TPupAZ,
Did you know the older kids (21 yo scumbag, and 18 yo scumbag in training) when they were younger? Were they good kids? Are the 15 and 13 yo next in the scumbag line?
They are all together? It's interesting that such a group sticks together through all those moves.

The oldest has always been a scumbag. Parents started giving him beer when he was 15 - he gets high with the parents (mind you he has 3 kids of his own). Never has had a job. We had him and his wife living with us for 3 months before (when she was pregnant with her first child and we wanted to help), and he said he applied for a bunch of jobs. When they moved back with his parents, we found all the applications in the couch, not even filled out.

The 18 year old has a good heart, but looks up to me and has a habit of embelishing his stories probably to try and make himself look cool for me. I know they're full of [censored] but I cant hate on that since I know I do the same with my friends sometimes... No matter where they move, he always gets a job within two days and is a hard worker, I just see him starting to go down hill. Been trying to get him in the army or military.

The 15 is getting there but he's actually using his brain. In his logic, he figured if he caused problems, the parents would send him away. Well it worked, he beat the hell out of everyone and his parents shippped him off to us for 3 months (he left last month). The only time I've seen him cry was when he got off the bus and we picked him up, and when we had to put him back on the bus. The 13 year old is secretly trying to run away to live with us. Those two boys are really the best, they always help out, they just want to go to school. Its really sad to hear them begging their mom to please let them go to school.

They are all together still. The oldest practically has his parents (my in laws who cant take care of themselves) supporting him and the 3 kids. The younger ones have no choice to be honest. Plus they have no means to break off. The kids (21, 18) are too dependant on the parents and falling into their habits as well.