This is not a hacker link:
chop stick demo
What are those spring things you speak of? I have never seen them.
Anyway, the way I learned was to balance one in the crook of my thumb and index finger, the other held by thumb, index finger and middle finger much as you hold a pencil. Then move the one held on top (by thumb, index, and middle) up and down to grab food stuffs.
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