[TomCollins]

Sorry to dissapoint the myspace thread followers, but most of the [censored] leads have dried up, but I did find one girl that I am interested in. Seen her about 4 times, talked a bit, seems to be going well, although progressing slowly. She just takes her time, and its no big deal for me.

Pretty early she gave me the non-exclusive talk, stating that she was dating other people and wanted to make sure I was aware and didn't care. No biggie, I barely know the girl. I don't want anything serious until I get to know someone anyway.

When I am on vacation, I notice several comments left on her mypsace page by one guy, who I will refer to as Army Tool. Seems like a total loser, has his myspace all tooled out to look like a 13 yr old girl, is younger than her, fat. Comments are along the lines of "I can't wait to meet you sweetie!" and "It was soo good to meet u!". I can't quote them all because she deleted them. Also, 3 days after they met, he posts in his myspace blog about "The Girl" he met, and how hes so in love. Again, seems like a total tool. Also while I'm gone (a total of 10 days), he buys her all kinds of jewelery as well.

When I get back, we go out, she asks if I'm still ok with the non-exclusive thing, and I agree, and try to get her to reveal what's up with this guy. This is where she shows me the jewelry. She seems annoyed with him, but is a nice girl and doesn't want to break his heart. She mentions she told him she was going out the night we went out, but didn't tell him it was a date because "when we talked about seeing other people, he said hed be really sad if I did." If this girl has any sense, she will choose me over him (and if she doesn't, definitely not my type), or neither of us.

This guy definitely seems to seem like the obsessive jealous type, and I can sense she is getting annoyed by it. I figure my best gameplan is to back off, and let the trainwreck happen. However, I don't think it would be a terrible idea to somehow make sure he finds out not only is she allowed to date other people, she is. But I can't make it obvious that she knows that's what I'm up to.

Any ideas?