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I went to dinner with her and one of her friends. It was like a girlie-pow-wow thing. If anything, you should be making fun of me for participating in that sort of discussion.

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gg,

No offence but you sound like one of her girlfriends. It's easy enough to convince yourself that what you are doing is innocent and free of bad intentions. But what is her line in all this? I mean, she's got girlfriends to yack with about this stuff, so what are you doing there? What is your role as seen through her eyes in this situation?

I think that's a part of the problem and if one of my friends was doing this with my girlfriend I have to say that I would be pissed. We all understand that your motives are innocent but what about hers? At some point a real friend has to say to himself, "what the hell is going on here?" and take a step back.