Re: Kinda weird situation...
Catch,
You sound like a really good guy, definitly a very loyal friend. As i have said, i could/should have be more closed off about the flirting. In my mind, i don't think that was great, but i acknowledge i was too drunk to really think it through at the time. With that said, for me the line is clear. When talking on AIM, Diablo asked me "If they break up and she comes and strips the next day in your room, could you say no?" Sure, i could and i would.
Just because one of my friends is going out with another one doesn't mean i can't be friends with her. That's all we are. There is no gray line for me, because i won't hook up with her, and i generally do discourage he from being flirty with me, i jsut happened to post 1 single example where i didn't and Diablo jumped on it. I could post examples of tonight where i discouraged her from flirting, but i mean i don't think i need to impress Diablo, i just don't appreciate my charecter being attacked. Zeroing on one case where i might have been able to be a better friend when i was trashed, as opposed to recogzing attempts i make to soothe things over between them and saying that i "created some inappropriate relationship with" is just silly IMO.
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