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SHE DOES NOT SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. Jesus, I hate OOT. It's a HYPOTHETICAL of situations in the past or future.

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Korush, I think most people in this thread do not want to see you get hurt, that's all.

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Heh... I doubt that, but I believe that you do and I'm truthfully grateful for it. Sorry. I get a little touchy when half the people in this thread are telling me she's [censored] other guys.

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I only read 2 pages of this thread, but since I am probably one of the older posters here you can trust my judgment from my life's personal experiences.

If she really wants to do this, then you have to come skinny dipping with her. Problem solved. She is the boss, you do what she says as long as it is within reasonable boundaries. If she really wants to go skinny dipping on her own without you, then I hate to say it but the relationship is not what it seems to be.

I wish you luck on this one, its not an easy position to be in.

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Dude, I gotta disagree with this. She is not the boss. It's a partnership.

You don't do things to piss off your partner, unless you just don't care.

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And a partnership says that if one partner wants to do something controversial, the other partner should go along with it - but together as a couple.

As for "the boss" statement, I have a good friend who has been married almost 45 years. They stay happily in love because he lets her take control on all day to day matters. This way when he really needs to step up to the plate to get things done, she always lets him. I think this is the ideal way to find the Happy blend in life, this is where so many men go wrong... they spend too much time telling their spouses or girlfriends what to do. That just leads to problems in the long run.

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