[bholdr]

...but i still think it's either:

A- she's gone, man... (unlikely)
B- she's just a little more comfortable about the stability/trust in the relationship than the OP. that's not necessarily a bad thing. (good things will follow having a GF that's very comfortable with her body and sexuality...)

here's an intresting situation:

a freind of mine is coming to the ocean with me this weekend. she has a boyfreind (not me), who's okay with this. why? I'm 330lbs and ugly as sin. just kidding (i'm HOT, dammit! [img]/images/graemlins/tongue.gif[/img]). he's okay with it because he trusts her, even though she's going to ride to the ocean to go surfing with some guy he's never met, and will be staying in my van with me, etc...

and in the past:

I've dated a girl who, from the start, made it clear that she was a flirty, wild chick (that's why i was into her, after all) and she went as far as to kiss other dudes (and girls [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]), and i've been okay with THAT, even, because i trusted her and she would end up with me... i KNOW she got naked in front of lots of different guys.

maybe it's a question of your experiences and comfort zones... i was very jelous in my first real relationship, and that hurt our long-term potential, i think.

hmmm... that's a lot of junk/ baggage, mostly... no real point, i suppose. take from it what you will.