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I'm not going for a few reasons I don't want to get into but this group of friends does not like me. She didn't ask me if it was ok. She told me she was going swimming tomorrow and was being a little weird about it so I pressed her about it and asked her if they were skinny dipping. She said in swimsuits but the possibility is there and she'd do it if they wanted to.

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Man, open your eyes! You're so in denial right now.


[i]The fact that she is socializing with a group of friends who don't like you should raise flags - not to mention that she wants to go skinny dipping with them! Not to mention one of them is her ex-boyfried! Come on...



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Is the ex b/f single?

But wouldn't this group be saying nothing but good things about her b/f? [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img] Trying to help make her relationship stronger should the subject of her b/f come up? Yeah, right. Leads to the question of why she'd want to hang with a 'group' like this. Not that this will happen, it might not, but still...(I've seen this happen with guys 'consoling' chicks about their current b/fs in attempts to put the b/f in bad light so they look better. Guys tend to be the ones to broach the subject. That's one reason guys listen to chicks crap about their b/fs. Sign of weakness attracts them so they might be able to be next at the plate)

Where is the mutual respect? In this thread I see many saying 'you should trust her', blah blah. Where's her part in it? Where's her role in not putting her boyfriend in that position? How much respect is she showing if she goes anyways regardless of how the OP feels about it? And for what? Skinnydipping with people (dudes) that don't care for her b/f. Especially if she knows he's not fond of it? She doesn't really sound like that great a girlfriend. If she's adamant about going, she sure isn't thinking of you. Trust and respect is not a one way street.

If I was one of the guys skinnydipping with this chick, I'd think it was a little odd that she was there w/o him. I would wonder just how tight you guys are. Some guys would like to test that. Especially single ex b/fs.

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