Re: Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys?
Many bad signs here
-still "friends" with ex, no way this should fly, any of her guy friends should also be friends of yours, otherwise bad news
-equal group of guys and gals planning to go skinny dipping, swimming with opposite sex equals playful wrestling.....naked......
-friends she hangs out with and you don't, in a good relationship you should have mutual friends except maybe 1 or 2 same sex stragglers from before you met.
-she is asking you for permission to get naked with other guys....hello...
also her asking ahead of time don't mean squat, women like to play sick little mind games, she will get a good laugh knowing she has your permission while she and he are "carousing".
Another thing her male friends need to respect your authority so to speak as the boyfriend, they are gonna think you are a real donk if you let her do this.
I totally agree with chipwrecked
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She is feeling you out. You have already given her the trump card by not standing your ground and forbidding it right away. She has lost all respect she might have had for you. The only way you gain the man's place in the relationship now is to break up with her. If you decide to take her back, you are in the driver's seat. If you let this go on, you have given her the pants. If that's OK with you, then proceed, by all means. At this point, your balls are in her purse. You'd better get them back, pronto, before they shrivel.
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put yourself in her shoes and ask these ?'s as if it was the other way around, the whole thing stinks
regardless, good luck to ya
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