[gorie]

actually i think it's a little strange that she would want to do this without you around. i would have questions about why she finds it necessary and what is appealing about it. it's something already planned, why not just bring a suit. obviously they all like the idea of being swimming naked together enough to plan the 'possibility' for some reason. this is hard for me to relate to, so i can't really say much about that.

the fact that she asked you first doesn't necessarily mean she has honest intentions. but it is good that she wants your approval and is being honest in asking about it. even if she won't cheat on you, there is definitely something she does like about this idea other than going for a swim.

it seems to bother you about other guys seeing her naked and what they might want/try to do... maybe this is what she likes about it.

so, what if you say no ? will she simply not go ? will this create resentment between the two of you ? also why don't you go with ?