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Meh. Mine has a few male friends with whom I wouldn't have a problem, but I know them all and none of them are her ex. If it's a dude I don't know, no chance, forget it. And if she had to ask me in advance, again, no. That's kind of weird but it makes sense if you think about it. Because it signifies there is doubt in her mind and that it was planned in advance, which is a bit off. Whereas if she told me afterwards that she went skinny dipping with certain male friends, I wouldn't think much of it.

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