Re: why boobs?
If it makes you feel any better Dellathia, almost every girl I've ever been attracted to had small boobies. I love 'em!
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I have never been able to get close to a boy and that is largely because of my lack of breasts.
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Don't be stupid. It amazes me how many girls think this. I had a girl I was absolutely crazy about. I was extremely attracted to her. After the first time I got done licking her boobs she said to me "You don't like them?" I was shocked, I literally attacked her boobies and she still thought I didn't like them. I told her "No, they are proportional to your body." That was a big mistake, because she was really skinny and took that the wrong way. In the end it didn't work out, but to this day I still get warm inside thinking about her. She was amazing. So no matter how much you believe it, your boobs are not the problem.
You either haven't met the right person, or your doing something wrong. This may not be relevant to you, but children of controlling parents will often go well into their college years without ever being involved in a relationship. Even when they do get involved in a relationship they are very rarely intimate ones. Psychological problems can really hamper your ability to get involved in a relationship, no matter how badly you want one.
It really sounds to me that you need to take a look at yourself. You might be suffering from depression, posttraumatic stress disorder, social anxiety, or some other problem. It's not a big deal if you are because about 20% of females your age are. You might need medication (even if it's only to get you out of a temporary slump) or you might just need a good psychologist/psychiatrist to talk to. If you get one of those make sure you get one you click with. Bad psychologist/psychiatrist can do more harm than good, but the good ones can work wonders. Try one out and if it doesn't feel right switch to another. Good ones will constantly be educating you on what you need to be watching out for/how to think about things. They give you tools you need to get through life.
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