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Holy Christ, this is PATHETIC. Please, PLEASE learn from this and MOVE ON. You've got to learn that virtually every woman in the world is faced with men hitting on them all the time. Your goal, imo, is to find one that treats you decently and *doesn't* succumb to the advances of others.

He's a scumbag, I wouldn't do what he does, but a man trying to sleep with a woman with a bf is NOT rare. This means that he's not your problem, SHE is. You blame HER. He's essentially irrelevant and something she deals with all the time. You should NOT act like a loser and take it. It's hard, but that's what life is. You'll be a better person on the other side.

MOVE ON MOVE ON MOVE ON. Jesus Christ. You sound like SUCH a wimp. I'm sure you're an incredibly nice guy, too, which is the shame of it. Basically you sound like every man in the world before they learn better. Toughen up and move on. Your life will be better for it.

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You know BB, I think you're talking crap. You don't know this woman yet you assume the worst. I don't like what's happened here and I want to talk to her about it, but to me, it sounds like you have problems with women.

Look there are two options here. One: A friend made a move on her, she declined, but maybe in a slightly inappropriate way tried to be nice about it and not tell him to [censored] off. If thats the case we need to talk about what happened and how it's not going to happen again.

Second option is something did happen, or she doesn't do anything to make it not happen again or i just don't believe her.

If that's the case, I'll do what I need to do, but I'm not go to throw away the chance to listen to what the woman I love has to say about a guy hitting on her because some guy on an internet message board calls me a wimp.

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He's not talking crap. His tone is a little bit over the top, but imo what he's saying is clearly right. And it is equally obvious that most people in your position won't believe it's right until they get burned by it.

In summary, he's right but it doesn't matter because you're going to end up seeing for yourself, which is how it probably should be. Just learn from it this time and don't do it a second time.