New girl lies about her age, what to do
 

So I met a women at a bar the other weekend and we hit it off right away. We made plnas to hang out the next day and we've hung out almost everyday/night for the past week.

The second night she asked me my age, I said 23, she was surprised because I do look about 29-30. So she tells me she's 30, so no biggie there.

Fast forward to last night, she says 'I need to tell you something, blah blah blah, I'm really 34.' I didn't really have an answer to it. After thinking about it, the fact she's only 4 years older doesn't bother me, but just the fact she lied about it. It somehow feels like I was tricked and it is bothering me more and more.

Anyway, I really do like this women and I'm frustrated by this, so if there is any advice out there, I'd like to hear it.


Cliff Notes:
Met a women I really like, she told me she's 30, then after a week she tells me she's really 34. (I'm 23) Age still doesn't bother me, but the lying about it does. Advice?

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Shes interested in you. Age isnt a big deal. Stop treating it as such. Once she senses you dont care, she wont either.

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for fucs sake man

you're retarded

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So I met a women at a bar the other weekend and we hit it off right away. We made plnas to hang out the next day and we've hung out almost everyday/night for the past week.

The second night she asked me my age, I said 23, she was surprised because I do look about 29-30. So she tells me she's 30, so no biggie there.

Fast forward to last night, she says 'I need to tell you something, blah blah blah, I'm really 34.' I didn't really have an answer to it. After thinking about it, the fact she's only 4 years older doesn't bother me, but just the fact she lied about it. It somehow feels like I was tricked and it is bothering me more and more.

Anyway, I really do like this women and I'm frustrated by this, so if there is any advice out there, I'd like to hear it.


Cliff Notes:
Met a women I really like, she told me she's 30, then after a week she tells me she's really 34. (I'm 23) Age still doesn't bother me, but the lying about it does. Advice?

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if she's hot she's hot, siihp

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Sub question: Would you be bothered by the age differance?

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FFS woman always lie about their age, dont worry its the bit where she missed out having three kids that will be more of the surprise later.

Edit to add, my lass is 5 years older than me and the age difference doesnt bother me, 11 years ma ybe more than I could handle though if it was a long term thing, you have only met her a couple of times so go for it for now older woman sex etc.

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The age difference doesn't matter if it doesn't bother you (and it shouldn't).

She lied. It bothers you. It bothered her, too, so she told you the truth. Tell her that you were upset, but are really happy she told the truth, tell her honesty is important, blah blah blah, water under the bridge.

Josh

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only relevance is that her biological clock is ticking louder at 34 than 30.

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only relevance is that her biological clock is ticking louder at 34 than 30.

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Yeap, I underestimated that effect once.

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You either get to have some psychotic sex, or you get to see what the inside of a Volvo's trunk looks like.

I say go for it!