Physical violence with roomates
 

Dig this.

I have 2 roommates that I hang with and both of them show lack of respect. It's getting bad that they will disagree with everything I say and belittle me when I make points that are correct by disagreeing in a condescending way. I take it. I accept that they only gang up on me because it's obvious they have both have low self esteem, no friends, introverted lifestyle, etc.

As I said, it's getting bad and I am considering challenging one of them to a fight. Getting myself hurt doesn't concern me I just think if I challenge them by stop taking their [censored] they will understand that there will be consequences if they try to pull my chains. You could say that I am looking for a way to prove to them undeniably that they should show respect.

Again, I don’t want to injure them seriously, I don’t want to create conflict but they keep pushing me to make me feel like I have to prove myself to them somehow and words have no effect, they are pointless.

I don't hate them or blame them for their ignorance, the house we live in is great aside from the occasional [censored] we deal with we have a great time.

Basically, I'm wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation and has confronted their antagonizers [sp?] and afterwards had changed the whole household dynamic for standing up for themselves or it resulted in a lifelong vendetta.

Thanks OOT, don't let me down.

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

Confront them. If things do not improve ignore them.

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

Don't hang out with them, don't talk to them, problem solved.

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Don't hang out with them, don't talk to them, problem solved.

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Don't hang out with them, don't talk to them, problem solved.

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I hang with them becuase they live in the house. We live in a house which is like a community. Hiding in my room is not solving the problem.

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the house we live in is great aside from the occasional [censored] we deal with we have a great time.


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It seems you are the one dealing with the [censored] - not them. To be honest, this has kind of a "wife-beating" feel to it - like everything is great, until there is some kind of conflict and then you get verbally abused.

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

Soko,

I can't even articulate how incredibly stupid I think your idea is.

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

Why is that? I think fighting is fun.

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

if you must resort to violence, you have already lost

Re: Physical violence with roomates
 

LET'S GET IT ON