An Awesome Girl Question! (sex problem)
 

okay my girlfriend and I are both virgins before we met. We are still kinda virgins except I have stuck it in her vagina (not sure exactly what virgin means) to feel around for a little bit but not ejaculated (I haven't gotten around to getting a condom. I'm pretty sure precum can get a girl pregnant too, so I was also trying to get precum out before sticking it in. Also we were doing it while she wasn't ovulating but I plan on getting condoms asap).

Anyways, she said I never got it all the way in there both times (my first and 2nd time with penis in vagina and hers too). Since I know nothing about sex or women's anatomy, what are the odds I suck at sex and what are the odds my penis is just much, much too large? FWIW, she's a whole foot shorter than me (I'm 6'7"). She said that her tampon goes all the way in farther or something. She tried guiding my penis with her hands too while I just laid there and that didn't really work either.

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You are basically a virgin, so it is likely you suck at sex. It could be just as likely that your penis is actually too small, depending whether she was judging 'all the way in' from an outside view or what she could feel inside.

What has your height got to do with anything? 5'7 isn't short, and 6'7 doesn't mean your penis is large.

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You are basically a virgin, so it is likely you suck at sex. It could be just as likely that your penis is actually too small, depending whether she was judging 'all the way in' from an outside view or what she could feel inside.

What has your height got to do with anything? 5'7 isn't short, and 6'7 doesn't mean your penis is large.

[/ QUOTE ]I measured it in high school and it was 7.5" then (4-5 yrs ago) I'm 22 now, so it possibly grew since then. I don't know much about penises either, but I just assumed they were somewhat proportional to your bodies....(I don't really know anything about anything).

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Zeebo -- it has nothing to do with penis size. Girls have trouble relaxing when they're having sex for the first time, because they're not used to it. You just have to practice a few more times. Just because she can get a tampon in doesn't mean she's ready to accept a penis. Take it slow and let her gradually relax. It will work best if you're on your back and let her sit on top and control the speed and depth of penetration.

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You will almost certainly NOT be too big. Also, if you want to suck less at sex, use foreplay. It can get you halfway there. Being "good" at sex basically means getting your partner off. Believe me, you'll have no problem finishing so really make an effort to get her done. Actually, her getting done will more than likely get you done.

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but I just assumed they were somewhat proportional to your bodies

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Apparently not (although taller guys might be more likely to have bigger dicks).

I doubt your story. 7.5 on a virgin isn't going to be fun for her. I doubt she would be complaining that it isn't going all the way in. Also, chicks actually aren't all that deep.

Check out the penis thread going on. Apparently 6-9 is normal.

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this is an amazing post.

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Your penis isn't too large. The problem is that her vagina isn't ready for cock. Keep trying and eventually you'll get there. The biggest problem is her body getting tense at this weird new experience. Another problem could be lubrication.

FWIW it took about two months with my gf (I was 16, her 18, both virgins) to get anything working. We tried to have sex on the first date, which ended up being a total disaster, and two months later we finally made it. I'm in the upper end of average, but still very normal sized. The feeling when you finally get there and get it all the way in is unmistakable, and it's pretty much smooth sailing from there.

I went through a similar thing with the whole precum thing too - was [censored] scared for two weeks when her period was late (she said it was regular like clockwork). I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.

Good luck!

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I think the whole precum thing is overblown unless you're trigger happy, which is unlikely at 22.


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This is so very wrong.

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I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

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With precum, you never know. Sometimes there's no sperm, sometimes there's as much as there would be in normal ejaculate. If I were OP, I wouldn't hazard to guess when I'm lethal or when I'm shooting blanks.

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I may be wrong. But I think it's a fairly long shot to get pregnant anyway even with a full load, all in way in, and her orgasming when she's out of ovulation. Just poking around seems fairly harmless to me if you have any control at all. Out of ovulation I'd hazard to say it's safer than the pill.

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Ovulation is notoriously elusive for most women, and sperm kive quite a while once deposited.

You suck at giving sex advice.

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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You are basically a virgin, so it is likely you suck at sex. It could be just as likely that your penis is actually too small, depending whether she was judging 'all the way in' from an outside view or what she could feel inside.

What has your height got to do with anything? 5'7 isn't short, and 6'7 doesn't mean your penis is large.

[/ QUOTE ]I measured it in high school and it was 7.5" then (4-5 yrs ago) I'm 22 now, so it possibly grew since then. I don't know much about penises either, but I just assumed they were somewhat proportional to your bodies....(I don't really know anything about anything).

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this is an amazing post.

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Okay so I don't really venture to far out of the other forums, but this is such a great thread I had too...

So try working up to sticking it in. Most women, correction, all women can't just automatically stick a penis in them with out being turned on. It just won't be comfortable for them. So if you are so content on having sex, try foreplay. It helps, and it also makes you better at sex and since this your first time, you are going to be terrible. It's okay, no one is any good their first time. But try doing things that lead into sex, instead of say, hey let me stick it in you. BTW, always use a condom, seriously, getting a girl pregnent is no joke. A life killer.

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

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Fingers and oral first.
Get her on the pill.

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I think the whole precum thing is overblown

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I chuckled

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Should try anal, dont have to worry about birth control, plus its easier on her.

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plus its easier on her.


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ya think?

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Zeebo has problems.
Try fingers and oral first.
Get her on the pill.

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Fixed your haiku.

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This thread put a smile on my face. I'm 18 and getting pissed off that I havn't gotten laid in 2 months, this makes me feel better though.

Hilarious. Good luck with the sex, but getting her on teh pill is way better than getting condoms, also you will suck at sex the first few times.

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This thread put a smile on my face. I'm 18 and getting pissed off that I havn't gotten laid in 2 months, this makes me feel better though.

Hilarious. Good luck with the sex, but getting her on teh pill is way better than getting condoms, also you will suck at sex the first few times.

[/ QUOTE ]if I get her on the pill won't it take a few months before working anyways? I'm horny now.

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This thread put a smile on my face. I'm 18 and getting pissed off that I havn't gotten laid in 2 months, this makes me feel better though.

Hilarious. Good luck with the sex, but getting her on teh pill is way better than getting condoms, also you will suck at sex the first few times.

[/ QUOTE ]if I get her on the pill won't it take a few months before working anyways? I'm horny now.

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wtf just go have sex.

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You suck at giving sex advice.

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http://www.managingcontraception.com..._10-20-00.html
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the percent of women experiencing an unintended pregnancy within the first year of using withdrawal as a method of birth control is from 4 % (perfect users) to 19 % (typical users).

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These are people who regularly go near ejaculation and withdraw beforehand, a LOT more stimulation, depth and frequency involved than just poking around.

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Some concern exists that the pre-ejaculate fluid may carry sperm into the vagina. In itself, the pre-ejaculate, a lubricating secretion produced by the Littre or Cowper's glands, contains no sperm. A study examining the pre-ejaculate for the presence of spermatozoa found none in the samples of 16 men. The chances of such sperm [occasionally found in precum, left behind from a PREVIOUS ejaculation] causing fertilization must be low, though not negligible." Malcolm Potts and Peter Diggory, Textbook of Contraception

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Now can we stop hating on my sex advice and get back to the OP?

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Phil, this means that the low estimate of women who will get pregnant PER YEAR of using withdrawal is 4%. Keep in mind that estimates are as LOW as 4% and as HIGH as 37%. Regardless, unless the OP is a supreme [censored], he will not take a 1/20 chance of having a baby to care for the rest of his life, just to avoid birth control. Remember, we are talking about someone who sucks at having sex so much he doesn't know WTF he is doing and has to ask OOT for advice. Chances are, he accidently nuts before he pulls out.

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zeebo,

how old are you? just curious.

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This thread put a smile on my face. I'm 18 and getting pissed off that I havn't gotten laid in 2 months, this makes me feel better though.

Hilarious. Good luck with the sex, but getting her on teh pill is way better than getting condoms, also you will suck at sex the first few times.

[/ QUOTE ]if I get her on the pill won't it take a few months before working anyways? I'm horny now.

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Oops, I assumed you were not a [censored]. Never mind.

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Oops, I assumed you were not a [censored]. Never mind.

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Ay, this is OOT! NEVER make that assumption again.

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Does your medieval village stock condoms?

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get her excited first.

use lots of lube (it will help a lot for the first time and make it easier for her to accept your weiner).

wear a condom.

thrust.

the end.

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zeebo,

how old are you? just curious.

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He said he his 22 in the OP. I think it's amazing that he knows so little about sex at his age.

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zeebo,

how old are you? just curious.

[/ QUOTE ]22.

Part of the reason I never had sex before was because my religion kinda frowns on sex b/f marriage (as did I), but ever since I started gambling my morals have gone to shambles bwahahhaha. The other part of the reason I'm a virgin is probably b/c I'm a pathetic loser !=0

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I feel bad laughing as loud as I did at the first post in this thread considering I am in a much worse boat than you are. But oh man my sides hurt.

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get her excited first.

use lots of lube (it will help a lot for the first time and make it easier for her to accept your weiner).

wear a condom.

thrust.

the end.

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Oooh, that's hot.

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zeebo,

how old are you? just curious.

[/ QUOTE ]22.

Part of the reason I never had sex before was because my religion kinda frowns on sex b/f marriage (as did I), but ever since I started gambling my morals have gone to shambles bwahahhaha. The other part of the reason I'm a virgin is probably b/c I'm a pathetic loser !=0

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I suspected that it was a religious thing. Almost every time an older than usual virgin posts a sex question on here, it's usually because he grew up in an extremely religious family. It's sad -- it's one thing to try to instill moral/religious values in a child, it's another thing entirely to keep their child ignorant of basic information about sex.

Anyway, good luck and god speed. [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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zeebo had problems
months later he has a kid
his bankroll suffered