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Girl Situation w/Pics
Some details first. We are both seniors in High School, she is 18 and I am 17. We have been “classmates” (200 kids in our grade) for all four years; our lockers are even two spots apart. However, last year was the first time we ever had one class together…now that I look back on it, she was flirting with me, but I didn’t pick up on it nor considered asking her out. Regardless she is shy if you don’t know her. She had one boyfriend for a few years that was older than her but she recently broke up with him and has been dating another kid at our school (he comes one period a day) for a month or so. I am not even positive they are still dating. Her Facebook says they are but she doesn’t use it like at all so she might not have even bothered updating it.
I developed a huge crush on her, like no girl ever before, about a month into school. She started just a few conversations at our locker, but I am too big of a pansy to start a real convo with her (other than BS stuff like homework or whatever). She asked about me about wanting to play poker professionally, and was smiling maybe even laughing (like you guys would too) at the idea, but I just suddenly felt something in me. I know I sound really gay. She has the most beautiful eyes, amongst other things. I am trying to pick up some signs, and a few kids in my class (mainly the FEW hot girls in my class) know about how much I like her though they said they wouldn’t tell. This is like a 5th grade situation. Here are my signs, need help deciphering them. She is not slutty in the least, probably still has a boyfriend, and is by far the most beautiful girl in the school and in my eyes, the world. We make eye contact like 3.8 million times a day. Like we both always catch each other looking at each other. Makes for a mad awkward time when we are alone, silent, at our lockers. She has started a few conversations with me, serious (funny though) ones, not just BS stuff, while she is usually pretty shy. She laughs at everything I say, like someone who would try to suck up sorta. I have this weird feeling like someone told her. I wish I knew what to say or the balls to say it. Especially in a situation where she has a boyfriend, and she doesn’t date many different guys. Need any/all help. I am like 95% sure she would definitely go to a 76ers game if I asked her (assuming she had no boyfriend.) I don’t know what I would do if she said no. Anyway, here are some pics and thanks… NOTE: Some might think that she thinks I am just funny or something, it comes off like that, but it isn't In silver here… http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/f...fewfewewff.jpg http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/f...7/azaaaaaa.jpg And if you can’t tell from the pics, she has a perfect body in every aspect. |
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Have you posted about this before? I'm 110% positive I've seen the 2nd pic on 2+2 before.
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Have you posted about this before? I'm 110% positive I've seen the 2nd pic on 2+2 before. [/ QUOTE ] Yea, it was just a rate thread. |
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Read the post, lol you sound like me when I was your age. And if I could go back in time 6-7 years and give myself some advice, I would say "STOP [censored] WORRYING ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME" which seems to be exactly what you're doing with this chick. If she's into basketball then ask her to a game. Don't spend five hours thinking about all the different ways it can play out and zomg is this the right time zomg does she have a boyfriend aah aah crap, just [censored] do it.
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No goofy, he sounds nothing like you. You are far beyond anything I've ever experienced before.
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but I just suddenly felt something in me. I know I sound really gay. [/ QUOTE ] this is too easy imo, i'm not even going to waste the effort. |
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And if you can’t tell from the pics, she has a perfect body in every aspect. [/ QUOTE ] Perfect??? Where the [censored] are her breasts? |
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Read the post, lol you sound like me when I was your age. And if I could go back in time 6-7 years and give myself some advice, I would say "STOP [censored] WORRYING ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME" which seems to be exactly what you're doing with this chick. If she's into basketball then ask her to a game. Don't spend five hours thinking about all the different ways it can play out and zomg is this the right time zomg does she have a boyfriend aah aah crap, just [censored] do it. [/ QUOTE ] qfmft |
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No goofy, he sounds nothing like you. You are far beyond anything I've ever experienced before. [/ QUOTE ] I think I'd know what I was like when I was 17 years old better than you would. Actually, this sounds like me when I was 15. EDIT: [ QUOTE ] I am trying to pick up some signs, and a few kids in my class (mainly the FEW hot girls in my class) know about how much I like her though they said they wouldn’t tell. This is like a 5th grade situation. Here are my signs, need help deciphering them. She is not slutty in the least, probably still has a boyfriend, and is by far the most beautiful girl in the school and in my eyes, the world. We make eye contact like 3.8 million times a day. Like we both always catch each other looking at each other. Makes for a mad awkward time when we are alone, silent, at our lockers. [/ QUOTE ] I mean, come on bmw, this is vintage goofyballer material here. |
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op sounds like he needs to quit thinking and start acting. wtf are you worried about, just [censored] ask her out or something. worst case scenario is you come back with a Trip Report worthy of reading.
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Well I almost feel like I'm stalking goofyballer by now, but seriously, this guy is living up to his custom title amirite? So like he said, just relax. It is hard, I know, but once you realize how easy it can be, you'll look back on your former self and laugh.
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BTW: The girls are definitely lying when they tell you they won't tell.
Also: you sound like a giant pussy. Enjoy the friend zone! |
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In silver here… [/ QUOTE ] [ ] silver, wtf. where? ima nit, wtf ever genius! |
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BTW: The girls are definitely lying when they tell you they won't tell. Also: you sound like a giant pussy. Enjoy the friend zone! [/ QUOTE ] If she didn't have a boyfriend. The "friend zone" idea is dumb here, and in most cases. She was "friends" forever with her current boyfriend before they started dating. I don't see anything good that can come out of me asking her out while she has a boyfriend. I am just afraid to [censored] everything up. |
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[ QUOTE ] In silver here… [/ QUOTE ] [ ] silver, wtf. where? ima nit, wtf ever genius! [/ QUOTE ] |
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I think the girl in the purple dress is blocking the silver water fountain cherub OP is talking about.
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lol goofy he reminds me of you from last december or so bro
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I think the girl in the purple dress is blocking the silver water fountain cherub OP is talking about. [/ QUOTE ] White, whatever. Do you ask your server if the water is Aquafina or Dasani too? |
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No, Perrier or San Pellegrino actually.
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http://www.pokerplayernewspaper.com/...images/478.jpg http://i242.photobucket.com/albums/f...7/azaaaaaa.jpg [/ QUOTE ] Don't know what you are implying. She isn't photogenic I guess. You have to see her in person or just take my word for it. |
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Have you posted about this before? I'm 110% positive I've seen the 2nd pic on 2+2 before. [/ QUOTE ] QFT |
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lol goofy he reminds me of you from last december or so bro [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, there's shades of recent goofyballer in there too. That redhead chick drove me insane and made me do stupid things. [ QUOTE ] If she didn't have a boyfriend. The "friend zone" idea is dumb here, and in most cases. She was "friends" forever with her current boyfriend before they started dating. I don't see anything good that can come out of me asking her out while she has a boyfriend. I am just afraid to [censored] everything up. [/ QUOTE ] Okay, how to solve that problem: ask her or one of these friends that already knows how much you're into her if she's still dating that dude. Also, the friend zone is always a problem. Also, you're kidding yourself if you think you can be friends with this girl while she's dating this other dude without wanting to kill yourself. |
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[ QUOTE ] lol goofy he reminds me of you from last december or so bro [/ QUOTE ] Yeah, there's shades of recent goofyballer in there too. That redhead chick drove me insane and made me do stupid things. [ QUOTE ] If she didn't have a boyfriend. The "friend zone" idea is dumb here, and in most cases. She was "friends" forever with her current boyfriend before they started dating. I don't see anything good that can come out of me asking her out while she has a boyfriend. I am just afraid to [censored] everything up. [/ QUOTE ] Okay, how to solve that problem: ask her or one of these friends that already knows how much you're into her if she's still dating that dude. Also, the friend zone is always a problem. Also, you're kidding yourself if you think you can be friends with this girl while she's dating this other dude without wanting to kill yourself. [/ QUOTE ] Oh no, I agree totally. That's why I don't talk to her much. The one girl was "sure" they were still dating, but they aren't real good friends, so that could easily be wrong. The reason I felt they might not be is because he was not out at her car or locker after school for the past week like he was for the previous 3 weeks. When someone asked her if she was dating him like 4 weeks ago in class she said "Can we not talk about it?" I feel like he just stalked her enough that she gave in. IDK I want to ask her soooo bad to somewhere, but am afraid to given the circumstances. |
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Jesus H. Christ. We went over this before.
You're 95% sure this piece would go to a game with you if she didn't have a boyfriend. Here's an idea. Ask her if she has a boyfriend. Quit being a puss and just do it. You're killing me here. If I was like you in high school I would have been a virgin until I was 21. This is ridiculous. Just cowboy up and DO IT already. My God, it's not like you want her or anything. By the way, you are REALLY not doing yourself any favors with this broad by posting pictures of her on the internet and then discussing her personal life on a public message board. Just, wow, you're really not thinking this through. |
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I don't understand why it's so hard to talk to a chick that you like and have a good feeling she feels the same way about you. Dude, think about it. At the end of the day does it really matter if you asked a girl and she said no?? I mean really? Life goes on and in 2 weeks you'll forget about it and move on to some other hot piece. For God's sake, just ask her. It's not like you'll die if things don't go how you want them to, and if you do die it was probably for the better anyway. Grow some balls! Good luck
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I deleted the pics in Photobucket. Why are they still showing up?
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I don't see anything good that can come out of me asking her out while she has a boyfriend. I am just afraid to [censored] everything up. [/ QUOTE ] How many times do you think any guy has ever approached her confidently, like, oh I don't know, a frackin' MAN? Just by having the stones to actively pursue her while she may or may not have a boyfriend makes you incredibly unique and attractive in here eyes. By not doing anything you screw it up without giving yourself a chance. |
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She is not one to cheat and I know that for sure. Doesn't that set up the "I have a boyfriend" perfectly?
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lol, there aren't a lot of high schoolers on 2+2, I think chances of trainwreck are pretty slim.
Regardless of what you want to happen between the two of you it starts with talking to her, so why don't you at least do that and then report back to us with results. And then we'll tell you to [censored] ask her out, and then you do it. All this "but what if this what if that" crap you keep saying is seriously going to hurt you now and in the future if you keep worrying about it all the time. |
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lol, there aren't a lot of high schoolers on 2+2, I think chances of trainwreck are pretty slim. Regardless of what you want to happen between the two of you it starts with talking to her, so why don't you at least do that and then report back to us with results. And then we'll tell you to [censored] ask her out, and then you do it. All this "but what if this what if that" crap you keep saying is seriously going to hurt you now and in the future if you keep worrying about it all the time. [/ QUOTE ] Just answer this, what good can possibly happen from me asking out a girl who would never cheat while she is dating someone? |
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wtf WHERE are the pics!
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dude, if your taht scared of being rejected, just reject urself before she gets the chance...
amirite? I hope not. |
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can someone repost the pics?
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Just answer this, what good can possibly happen from me asking out a girl who would never cheat while she is dating someone? [/ QUOTE ] She doesn't have to cheat on him, she could, you know, break up with him, esp if it sounds like their relationship is on the rocks anyway. She less likely to do that if you don't give her a reason to (i.e. you). |
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[ QUOTE ] lol, there aren't a lot of high schoolers on 2+2, I think chances of trainwreck are pretty slim. Regardless of what you want to happen between the two of you it starts with talking to her, so why don't you at least do that and then report back to us with results. And then we'll tell you to [censored] ask her out, and then you do it. All this "but what if this what if that" crap you keep saying is seriously going to hurt you now and in the future if you keep worrying about it all the time. [/ QUOTE ] Just answer this, what good can possibly happen from me asking out a girl who would never cheat while she is dating someone? [/ QUOTE ] she breaks up with said individual and goes out with you |
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[ QUOTE ] Just answer this, what good can possibly happen from me asking out a girl who would never cheat while she is dating someone? [/ QUOTE ] She doesn't have to cheat on him, she could, you know, break up with him, esp if it sounds like their relationship is on the rocks anyway. She less likely to do that if you don't give her a reason to (i.e. you). [/ QUOTE ] "Kayla, would you like to go to a 76ers game with me?" "One sec, let me break up with my boyfriend." ??????????????????????????? |
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how hard is it to find out if she is dating someone?
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Who cares if she has a boyfriend?
You: Hey [enter her name], I'm going to the basketball game on Friday, you should join me. Her: I have a boyfriend. You: Good for you! It's just a basketball game, not marriage. It'll be fun. The end. |
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