Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Anyone ever been there, any advice for a guy that is intent on not getting scammed?

Met a girl dancing on Friday night, 4'11" from FL, she has lived in nyc 6 months, tone body natural C to D cups. I bought dances from her at the end of my night on Friday and she was on e and moaning a ton when I gave her a massage, she tried to upgrade me to champagne room but I declined. I asked her for her number and she said they were not allowed to give it out but I could give her my business card. I told her I have a great memory and to whisper it to me so she did. I'd say there is a 65% chance she is not running game on me. Got a dinner date with her on her next day off next week.

Positives - this is all from a 2nd meet up at her club, details below
* When I asked her how old she was she said 33 (which seemed accurate to me), no BS on age could mean no BS on the rest - I am 36, but that doesn't matter.
* She liked the fact that I lived in her neighborhood (Hells Kitchen) since she tried dating a guy from Long Island once and it was not going to work
* She asked what I do during the day since she works mostly nights, I told her "I work" lol.
* She has not asked me what I do for a living or how much I make
* She said she rarely gives her cell number out, only a few girls at the club has her number (could obviously be BS)
* There is one night off where she never gets called in and she uses it for dating and private dances, this is a "pro" and "con" I consider it more of a "pro" since she is being brutally honest but I am biased
* She was embarrassed because she thought she might have bad breath and kept covering her mouth, after she had to go up on stage when she came back to me she was chewing a jolley rancher, a very small "pro" but the fact that she did not want to turn me off is a plus

Negatives
* Doesn't sound like she drinks, she does e, I asked her about pot and she said she used to when she was younger - not a major "con" but suspicious, I didn't ask her about coke, didn't want to pry too much
* When I asked her where she lived she said West side, when I pressed her she said she will tell me where she lives after a few dates if that is o.k. - could be a red flag or she could just be cautious with new guys she meets at her club
* I called her on one of her days off yesterday, but she gets called in a lot, turns out she had to go into work last night and asked me to come in to see her - CLASSIC SCAM - major red flag went off. Only reason I went last night was because she said she did not remember me and I didn't think I could have gotten her to meet me out without a follow up visit. She also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

I am not going to visit her at work again and I already made it perfectly clear to her that I am very skeptical about her.

I have gotten numbers from strippers before and know a lot of the games they play, guess I have to wait until our date to see if I got a legit pull or if I got pwned.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Best kurosh gimmick account yet.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

back story or link please, who is kurosh?

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

YOU WILL GET ROLLED BY HER PIMP.

He gots ta keep his pimp hand strong.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

lol this is every guys I Went On A Date With A Stripper story. I did the same thing and got rickrolled out of my time and opportunity to bang actual cute chicks. Never again imo.

Also did you say 4'11?

Typo or should we upgrade the song to "I'm In Love Wit A Lil'Strippa" ?

--GA

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
Anyone ever...

[/ QUOTE ]

I stopped here when I didn't see a picture

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

dating a stripper is not a brag.
its funny how many people actually think strippers "love them" then get robbed lol

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
YOU WILL GET ROLLED BY HER PIMP.

He gots ta keep his pimp hand strong.

[/ QUOTE ]

lol

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
dating a stripper is not a brag.
its funny how many people actually think strippers "love them" then get robbed lol

[/ QUOTE ]

meh strippers are people too. A buddy of mine from college married one and they have a kid living in NC now. You are right though a lot of suckers out there.

/cautiously optimistic

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

If you haven't read http://www.stripperweb.com/ then I think you should [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
If you haven't read http://www.stripperweb.com/ then I think you should [img]/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ]
Been there [img]/images/graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Are you serious? Do you actually think you're dating this girl?

lolz

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

at which club did you meet this girl?

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

I briefly dated an ex-stripper who was about 4'11". Her [censored] was the size of my thumb because she had taken growth hormones when she was younger. She was really good in bed.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

100% no doubt she is scamming.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
100% no doubt she is scamming.

[/ QUOTE ]

Cool give me 10,000:1 odds then

Very good read:
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=33022

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

This much confidence that she digs you could conceiveably be warranted if she actually remembered you.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Dating a 33 year old stripper isn't a brag. I think the cutoff age for it being cool is if the stripper is under 24 and in school. A 33 year old stripper is a lifelong stripper, amirite?

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

I don't think you can be so sure of the 'coolness' of dating a younger stripper either actually.

But 'sort of' 'might' be dating a 33-year-old midget-stripper who probably does tons of e and doesn't even remember who you are is definitely not in the realm of cool.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
But 'sort of' 'might' be dating a 33-year-old midget-stripper who probably does tons of e and doesn't even remember who you are is definitely not in the realm of cool.

[/ QUOTE ]

owned

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
I don't think you can be so sure of the 'coolness' of dating a younger stripper either actually.

But 'sort of' 'might' be dating a 33-year-old midget-stripper who probably does tons of e and doesn't even remember who you are is definitely not in the realm of cool.

[/ QUOTE ]

Glad we have you here to dictate to us what is cool and what is not. Nothing like sensationalizing every little detail to try to elicit respect in your weak argument.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

for the most part, strippers are self-absorbed and selfish. they will abandon their lesbian lovers and boyfriends just as quickly as they will abandon their children.

they are all around self-destructive. falling for a stripper is a huge mistake.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]

Negatives

*Doesn't sound like she drinks, she does e

[/ QUOTE ]

This is not a huge negative unless you want to have something other than a couple weeks of sex-crazed fun, which you don't, trust me. These girls love to party on all kinds of drugs, although I did have a week long fling with a stripper who did not do drugs and only did patron shots. Not having drugs and not wanting to do drugs is generally a big negative for you.

[ QUOTE ]
* I called her on one of her days off yesterday, but she gets called in a lot, turns out she had to go into work last night and asked me to come in to see her - CLASSIC SCAM - major red flag went off. Only reason I went last night was because she said she did not remember me and I didn't think I could have gotten her to meet me out without a follow up visit. She also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

I am not going to visit her at work again and I already made it perfectly clear to her that I am very skeptical about her.

[/ QUOTE ]
Yeah, her asking you to go into work is basically a sh*t test, if you go in, you fail. Also if you've spent any sort of money on her already, you've probably failed. Never, ever, ever, go in there while she's working.

At this point, you must not take a single grain of sh*t from her, and be very firm and in control about everything. If you agree to meet up at 6 PM and she's not there by 6:15, you leave. You don't even call or anything. Also plan on telling interesting stories and doing some exciting stuff on your date, try to dress up like a baller, and exude sexuality as much as possible. Even if you are very good it probably won't work out. GL

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

I can't imagine how deranged you must be to even consider dating a stripper. Can you not comprehend the drama bombs that will be dropping every day? Strippers aren't normal people.

This is a huge beat no matter how you look at it. Good luck though.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

bwahahahahaha, she wants money for sex, that is all.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
I can't imagine how deranged you must be to even consider dating a stripper. Can you not comprehend the drama bombs that will be dropping every day? Strippers aren't people .


[/ QUOTE ]

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]

meh strippers are people too.

[/ QUOTE ]

Yes, but they're dead inside.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

How are people this retarded. Its a STRIPPER, her life's work is to scam people out of money.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

How is her being a stripper not one of your negatives?

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
How are people this retarded. Its a STRIPPER, her life's work is to scam people out of money.

[/ QUOTE ]

This is ironic on a poker forum. The word you actually are looking for is hustle.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
he also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

[/ QUOTE ]

strippers inside of strip clubs smile....not just for you boss.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]
he also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

[/ QUOTE ]

strippers inside of strip clubs smile....not just for you boss.

[/ QUOTE ]

Or it could just be that her mark just walked in the door with a target and an air of desperation all over him.

C'mon man, you can't be so lonely that you're interested in the first stripper that pays you a little attention. There's gotta be someone you work with that could set you up with a friend. YOu remember those things, right? Those are the people who don't take their clothes off for money. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Honestly the best thing to do with strippers is just become friends with them. Then you get hooked up to wild parties and meet their hot friends who will see you as validated since you're a friend of a friend.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
[ QUOTE ]

Negatives

*Doesn't sound like she drinks, she does e

[/ QUOTE ]

This is not a huge negative unless you want to have something other than a couple weeks of sex-crazed fun, which you don't, trust me. These girls love to party on all kinds of drugs, although I did have a week long fling with a stripper who did not do drugs and only did patron shots. Not having drugs and not wanting to do drugs is generally a big negative for you.

[ QUOTE ]
* I called her on one of her days off yesterday, but she gets called in a lot, turns out she had to go into work last night and asked me to come in to see her - CLASSIC SCAM - major red flag went off. Only reason I went last night was because she said she did not remember me and I didn't think I could have gotten her to meet me out without a follow up visit. She also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

I am not going to visit her at work again and I already made it perfectly clear to her that I am very skeptical about her.

[/ QUOTE ]
Yeah, her asking you to go into work is basically a sh*t test, if you go in, you fail. Also if you've spent any sort of money on her already, you've probably failed. Never, ever, ever, go in there while she's working.

At this point, you must not take a single grain of sh*t from her, and be very firm and in control about everything. If you agree to meet up at 6 PM and she's not there by 6:15, you leave. You don't even call or anything. Also plan on telling interesting stories and doing some exciting stuff on your date, try to dress up like a baller, and exude sexuality as much as possible. Even if you are very good it probably won't work out. GL

[/ QUOTE ]

Hey DJC - you are dead on. One thing that is sounding really fishy is the whole, call me Monday night to remind me we have a date Tuesday. Sounds like a setup for, "Oh I got called into work tomorrow night, why don't you pay me a visit" f' that

On a positive note she called me Friday night just to tell me she had a good time Thursday night and to be sure to call her on Monday about Tuesday, without the typical why don't you come in to see me tonight or this weekend.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

just for reference, saying that she isnt allowed to give out her number, but giving out a business card w/ her number on it pretty much means, in most places at least, that she is a hooker.

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Dear OP,

Did you pick out the ring yet?


Best wishes,
Brandt

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
just for reference, saying that she isnt allowed to give out her number, but giving out a business card w/ her number on it pretty much means, in most places at least, that she is a hooker.

[/ QUOTE ]


reread

she can take business cards




[censored] that, lose that skank, you've already lost too much money on getting absolutely nothing that she doesn't give to dozens of guys nightly

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

[ QUOTE ]
Anyone ever been there, any advice for a guy that is intent on not getting scammed?

Met a girl dancing on Friday night, 4'11" from FL, she has lived in nyc 6 months, tone body natural C to D cups. I bought dances from her at the end of my night on Friday and she was on e and moaning a ton when I gave her a massage, she tried to upgrade me to champagne room but I declined. I asked her for her number and she said they were not allowed to give it out but I could give her my business card. I told her I have a great memory and to whisper it to me so she did. I'd say there is a 65% chance she is not running game on me. Got a dinner date with her on her next day off next week.

Positives - this is all from a 2nd meet up at her club, details below
* When I asked her how old she was she said 33 (which seemed accurate to me), no BS on age could mean no BS on the rest - I am 36, but that doesn't matter.
* She liked the fact that I lived in her neighborhood (Hells Kitchen) since she tried dating a guy from Long Island once and it was not going to work
* She asked what I do during the day since she works mostly nights, I told her "I work" lol.
* She has not asked me what I do for a living or how much I make
* She said she rarely gives her cell number out, only a few girls at the club has her number (could obviously be BS)
* There is one night off where she never gets called in and she uses it for dating and private dances, this is a "pro" and "con" I consider it more of a "pro" since she is being brutally honest but I am biased
* She was embarrassed because she thought she might have bad breath and kept covering her mouth, after she had to go up on stage when she came back to me she was chewing a jolley rancher, a very small "pro" but the fact that she did not want to turn me off is a plus

Negatives
* Doesn't sound like she drinks, she does e, I asked her about pot and she said she used to when she was younger - not a major "con" but suspicious, I didn't ask her about coke, didn't want to pry too much
* When I asked her where she lived she said West side, when I pressed her she said she will tell me where she lives after a few dates if that is o.k. - could be a red flag or she could just be cautious with new guys she meets at her club
* I called her on one of her days off yesterday, but she gets called in a lot, turns out she had to go into work last night and asked me to come in to see her - CLASSIC SCAM - major red flag went off. Only reason I went last night was because she said she did not remember me and I didn't think I could have gotten her to meet me out without a follow up visit. She also told me to wear the same shirt from Friday so that she would remember me. When she saw me she did remember me and had a big smile on her face, eh.

I am not going to visit her at work again and I already made it perfectly clear to her that I am very skeptical about her.

I have gotten numbers from strippers before and know a lot of the games they play, guess I have to wait until our date to see if I got a legit pull or if I got pwned.

[/ QUOTE ]

you're toast, brother...

just knock the bottom out of it and don't look back...

Re: Hey look at me! I (might) be dating a stripper
 

Here is a stripper owning our good friend Kip aka John.