Girl question
 

I got this girl's number last week at a party, and we've been talking all week. We get along pretty well, but I've only met her once.

We couldn't hang out this weekend because her parents were in for parent weekend, so she had to keep them company friday/saturday.

Anyway, we're going to dinner tomorrow. If it goes well, I am thinking about asking her to start a relationship, but I'm thinking it's too early. What do you guys say?

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Don't force it. Look for vibes and play on them. Keep hanging out until you think she feels like you are inseparable. But NEVER EVER hang out too much where it turns into a friendship. The worst thing a girl could say is, "I feel like we are just good friends and I don't want to ruin that."

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don't even mention a relationship until you guys have gone out a few times..let it happen naturally

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You all should hang out some more. If she seems to have fun, just plan the next time to hang out. You should probably take her out after dinner to hang out some more if it goes well.

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F the haters go for it.

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"We've been to dinner once, wanna start a relationship?"

You can't go wrong here, five minutes after saying this she'll be in your bed or giving you head.

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Do not ask her to start a relationship! You will come off too strong and probably make it really awkward. Keep going out with her until things happen naturally, as people said above.

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i say just don't bore her and she will love you.

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Nothing melts a girl's heart like "would you like to start a relationship?"

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its all about the push/pull

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Do not ask her to start a relationship! You will come off too strong and probably make it really awkward. Keep going out with her until things happen naturally, as people said above.

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OMG don't do it. Go out, try to make out w/ her / get some play. Rinse, repeat, and if it keeps happening on a regular basis, then have the relationship talk w/ her. Asking her to start a relationship after the first date is

a) really dumb
b) really immature (HS style)

This is college, hook up and see where it goes.

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get her preggo, nothing says 'relatoinship' than a baby in the oven, the best relatoinships start that way imo

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el oh el

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"We've been to dinner once, wanna start a relationship?"

You can't go wrong here, five minutes after saying this she'll be in your bed or giving you head.

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QFMFT do this FTMFW LDO

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don't do it

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I got this girl's number last week at a party, and we've been talking all week. We get along pretty well, but I've only met her once.

We couldn't hang out this weekend because her parents were in for parent weekend, so she had to keep them company friday/saturday.

Anyway, we're going to dinner tomorrow. If it goes well, I am thinking about asking her to start a relationship, but I'm thinking it's too early. What do you guys say?

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You need the upper hand. This doesn't give you the upper hand.

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this seems like a bad idea. there's no chase at all. you're being too nice. most girls don't like nice guys yet. at least play hard to get. i think it's a good idea to regularly do some things together, without other people. just see where is goes and don't be in a hurry to make her yours.

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agree - they have to WANT you. girls don't want bitches.

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Big mistake to go for it this early. Take your time, develop a rapport by going out a few times and letting things occur naturally.

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I can tell you are obviously a rookie as you are willing to start a relationship after hanging once. Generally i try to wait a month or two get a real feel for the person. 1 week and 1 hang out is not enough. Don't let yourself get tripped up already.

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Relationship talks never occur until you are actually in a relationship. Just let it happen naturally. If all goes well it'll be a month or two and then your relationship status will just come up in conversation at some point. If you force it I can almost guarantee you it will never happen.

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Relationship talks never occur until you are actually in a relationship. Just let it happen naturally. If all goes well it'll be a month or two and then your relationship status will just come up in conversation at some point. If you force it I can almost guarantee you it will never happen.

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QFT

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your best move is to just hook up with her UNTIL SHE MENTIONS IT, then find new girls to hook up with... imo college is not ideal for relationships (bc girls are whores)

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When she's not looking slip it in her butthole real quick.

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When she's not looking slip it in her butthole real quick.

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dont just ask her to be your gf, are you in 6th grade? just be cool and make her want you, sounds like you got it in the bag anyways. you dont want her sketched out because you're coming on too strong, just let things take their course (wait a little and keep going on dates)

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dont ask her to start a relationship, rather build sexual tension. Start off with light hand touching ( not holding hands like teenagers), hand on back, hand on leg, put her arm on yours promenade style etc.

When you feel the vibe is on, then go in for the kiss close...If she doesnt kiss you it may just be that its not the right place or you haven't warmed her up enough yet. So pay attention to her reaction/response.

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If it goes well, I am thinking about asking her to start a relationship, but I'm thinking it's too early. What do you guys say?

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HA, do NOT use the word relationship. period.

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Take your lover by the hand, and do her in 'da butt.

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get her preggo, nothing says 'relatoinship' than a baby in the oven, the best relatoinships start that way imo

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Um, I think the phrase is "bun in the oven". If he puts a baby in the oven, she may just call the cops and run like hell.