Ex-Girlfriends?
 

I had a GF for 3 years and it was dysfunctional as could possibly be. As a word of advice to you youngsters if a girl is down to suck your dick in the first 12 hours of meeting her she probably isn't monogamy material. Long story short i eventually got rid of this girl but I still hear stories about her to this day because everyone from back home still associates me with her (beat).

So her old best friend now lives across the street from me in pacific beach san diego. I went with her to buy up. Now this girls name is lindsay and has been a friend of mine since i was a sophomore in high school because i met her the day i met J (my ex). We haven't really hooked up much but she looks good these days and I prolly would be down. I have been over this whole thing for a long time now (year+) but lindsay tells me this story and I get kinda pissed. Not because of the story so much but because she felt like i needed to hear it.

She tells me jacqui has been down in SD and they went out together to a fraternity one night. Jacqui did her standard thing; sucked some dick and then ASKED for the facial. OBv she says to lindsay she would rather not go back (not because she wouldn't want to but because she wanted to subtly imply she got some play i.e. thinly veiled brag which is actually a beat.).

This brings me back to the last time i saw this girl. She literally attaked me clawing my face/neck because i said she was unintelligent and went to a [censored] school.

Then she later told my lightweight GF in the hometown that I had another girlfriend in Santa Cruz trying to come REAL shady and [censored] me over out of spite. She then had the nerve to tell me I was still in love with her or some BS when she tried to hook up with me like 2 months before and i turned her down.

This girls life is already a trainwreck and ive been over it but now having to hear this [censored] all over has ruined my night. I went out to the bars but couldn't shake this [censored] mood and rather than hook with a girl i was out looking for a fight to relieve anger (i have problems). I am not a spiteful person but she cheated on her douchebag BF back home and im about to just trainwreck her [censored] on myspace cause im drunk and pissed. I understand this is prolly worthless without pics So i might just link her whole myspace. At least she was smart enough to delete our sex pics from my cell phone when we broke up...

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You needa go out, find you some hoes, and have fun. Forget those other people.

Also, I'm drunk kinda too. Obv brag amirite?

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went out tonight and had my worst night in months for no real reason; saw plenty of hot girls and danced with some etc. but just couldnt shake the fact that my past has followed me all the way to southern california.

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I have pressed refresh 5 or 6 times but I am still not seeing any pictures or promised myspace link.

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It's like poker. You need to focus on your play, not your results.

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You need to learn to like, cut off contact with toxic people. I had a really bad breakup with an ex that turned out to be cheating on me, and once I was done being a depressed emo idiot, I [censored] another girl and it made me feel better about myself. Then I proceeded to cut off contact with ex-gf forever.
This is key, you cut all ties with the person, and ignore any of their attempts to contact you. I've gotten a few emails and facebook messages from her from time to time, apologizing and [censored], and I don't find it necessary to respond or acknowledge them. Just act as if they are dead and you will feel good, lol.

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Saucy is spot on. It's tempting to try to lash back out at her, but all that's going to do is fill you with spite and keep her in your mind.

Just break off contact and focus on other things, and you'll forget her.

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I deleted her from my myspace friends and she has a private profile. I am on my friends computer so I don't have any real decent pics but I do have the low res blurry bad one that comes when you search a profile. I'll post that just let me figure out how to do it.

I agree with you saucy I really have been over it but just tonight it was like getting it thrown back in my face full force again. Some of the things we went through were unreal.

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how do I upload a picture from my desktop to the forums?

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gogogo then post the link to the image here

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Ex Gfs

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F' them.

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also: beer.

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oh, and saucyspade seems to be a wise man. Best cut off all common friends who won't cut her off, too.

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pretty worthless pic shes the one on the right in the front. Can't host it correctly and not even sure if i can get a better pic on this comp since i deleted her from my facebook/myspace.

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try again. don't resize.

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Ehhh no real mutual friends in this one. This was a standard 2 year younger girl. i was going to be a sophomore she was going to be a freshmen. Lost the V to e/o (although i technically lost mine signifigantly before). Hooked up with a number of her 06' classmates from various high schools in the area so thats where most of the flak comes from and where this girl lindsay falls in. Just mad at the fact that I still get linked to her when its definately in the past. Last things i need to hear from ppl i havent seen in months are tales about an ex-GF being a whore when obv I know better than anyone about that.

Stories to make the thread decent.

1. We had been dating for the first 8 months and I needed to get out of the relationship. No cheating yet but I told her i had feelings for another girl (true) and that we were not going to work. Didn't want to break up with her but I tried to make her break up with me. Failure; she wanted to "work it out". Eventually I had to do it myself around valentines day. My reasoning was so screwed up that I did the following. I didn't break up with her pre v day because i didn't want to be cheap and not get her a gift but at the same time I didn't want to have a great valentines day but then have to break up with her like the day after. So i decided to do it on valentines day. She blew up a bunch of balloons putting sweet notes in them about things she liked about me and put them all over my room. I started popping them and broke up with her first thing she said wrong. Pretty [censored] up but w/e it didnt last very long. (moral is im a dbag - or a misguided teen)

2. A little later I start hooking up with a girl in her class named A. I don't have sex with her for a long time because i think that would be too much of a violation but we exchange a lot of oral while me and the GF are having problems. Eventually me and A decide to have sex after a partybus night and go back to my pad. I'm kinda faded and she takes pics on my cell phone. I don't remember this in the morning. The GF calls me early, we make up verbally, then she jogs down to my house and we make up physically. She buys me lunch down the street after and snags my phone. I think little of it until i see a stunned look on her face. I see the pictures for the first time and they are 100% incriminating/dated. This girl is like her enemy so she smashes my phone on the pavement. pretty damm bad but w/e.

I was beatin it up doggy one afternoon and pulled out a lil late so we hit up walgreens for the day after pill. I was overdrawn with BOFA so I couldn't get it for her and she went to AZ with her parents for a family vacation. I didn't answer her calls for 2 weeks. (douchebag move)

before i get made out to be a dbag though she is worse.

She [censored] justin wexler while dating me.

She snowballed my best friend after suking me off (then later hooked up with him orally)

she [censored] lindsays brother (read OP)

She told me she was addicted to cocaine to make me feel sympathy for her when i wanted to break up (lying)

Lot more stuff cant remember ATM.

all the screwed up things i did where when i was like 16 though and I would never do these things today. The complaint in the op is simply because I want to distance myself from these immature actions/people but I am finding it hard to do when thats what I am hugely associated with in certain circles where I am from.

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I didn't resize the picture it is just the myspace thumbnail from a private profile. Will try to find better but I am going to sleep soon.

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Umm i was pretty drunk when I wrote all of this. Can a mod please delete this????

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You sober up fast, plz to be coaching me?

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I was thinking same thing..less then an hour. Jesus. And LOL @ justin wexler..he'll always get you in the long run. That little dck shitter.

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SIIHP and post link LDO

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SIIHP and post link LDO

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You needa go out, find you some hoes, and have fun. Forget those other people.



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He sure won't be able to find any loose women living in pacific beach, amirite op?

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Girls are fooked. I live and work in a pub and my ex comes in all the time with new blokes and 9/10 she's off her [censored]!

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Girls are fooked. I live and work in a pub and my ex comes in all the time with new blokes and 9/10 she's off her [censored]!

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Umm, [censored] up their drinks with something funny, ldo? Pics and tr plz, thx.

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At least she's not following you to the bank and trying to run you over like my ex is.

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Girls are fooked. I live and work in a pub and my ex comes in all the time with new blokes and 9/10 she's off her [censored]!

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Umm, [censored] up their drinks with something funny, ldo? Pics and tr plz, thx.

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roofie coolata, ftw

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my EX is about to be a bridesmaid @ my wedding, and at least 4 or 5 of my EX's will be in attendance as well. Not all relationships that end have to end poorly.

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she sounds batshit crazy

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my EX is about to be a bridesmaid @ my wedding, and at least 4 or 5 of my EX's will be in attendance as well. Not all relationships that end have to end poorly.

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lol, noob. wait 'til wedding, tr and pics of hilariousness then plz. dont say we didn't warn you.