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Put aside all your personal preferences on this question. Only consider your preference to get laid on the second date.

So you're on a first date with a girl. The two of you have a good time and she comes back to your apartment with you. The two of you finish a bottle of white wine on your couch while, talking, flirting, and kissing. You decide you want to get it on so you ask her to come to your room. She says, "Id really love to, and i will if you want, but I'm on my period." In order to get you laid on the second date (when she's not on her period)...

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Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

The second one is gay. Just kiss her and change the subject.

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If you cant pot the pink, pot the brown.

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numero 2 by far..

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btw id u ask her to come to your room your already doing something wrong..

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I have my fair share of phobias when it comes to women, but christ I've never even considered or heard of anyone worrying about being considered a pussy because you won't bang a girl on her period.

The correct reply is "I'm a blowie only on the first date kinda guy anyways." It'll never work, but it's smooth regardless.

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say, "thats ok, I don't put out on the first date anyway"

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Say "I don't secks on the first date honey, but how would you like a full body massage, I'm good at those! Depending on what I think, you may have a chance next time"

Don't forget to wink flirtatiously as you say this

Then, give her a full body massage WITHOUT CLOTHES ON




Her, not you

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"What does your period have to do with you giving me head?"

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this is the same principle as why generally makeouts within the first 10 minutes of meeting a girl are easy, but seriously mess up your chances of laying her. The reason is when you try to get together, she thinks "jeez i already did X with him, whats next, sex?" while not being comfortable with you.

the prerequisites for sex are simply her comfort and attraction in you. In the OP, [ QUOTE ]
You decide you want to get it on so you ask her to come to your room. She says, "Id really love to, and i will if you want, but I'm on my period."

[/ QUOTE ] the male character handles the situation akwardly, and the female characters dialogue is at the very least contrived, if not completely impossible.

Now, only considering the preference to get laid on the second outing and as played, the situation is still complex. If you sleep with her on the first outing and she is unsatisfied, you probably won't get a second try if she is attractive. If she is decent or worse it doesn't matter what you do. If you don't sleep with her and play it off badly then it hinders your chances. If you don't sleep with her and you are cool about it, then you have a good shot to sleep with her, but not as much of a shot as if you had [censored] her proper and she is attractive enough to know what is and isn't a good [censored] (i can explain this subtle point if need be, but this post is already too long.)

So, to recap:
[censored] her first is the correct answer, if you make her feel good OR you suck at handling the situation when you decide not to [censored] her. otherwise passing is correct. in either case, <u>the play that makes her most comfortable with you is almost always best. </u>

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Saying anything in that situation really sucks imo. She's probably nervous and kind of embarassed, and there's a big chance you say something awkward.

Just look her in the eyes and start kissing her, and see what happens. That's the best way to get her comfortable

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Yeah definitely start kissing her and say "Don't worry about it."

Then just wait for her to interrupt that as either "we can still have sex" or "we don't have to have sex."



edit: just reread OP she says "I will if you want". so get her reassurance and then put it home.

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Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

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What? Almost every girl I know is horny as hell and wants to get their brains [censored] out when they're on their period.

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Those choices kind of stink. I would quietly parlay this event into a BJ and/or TF and just get laid next time.

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"That's OK, with the size of my [censored], they all bleed"
is the right response to her

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"That's OK, with the size of my [censored], they all bleed"

This is good, but "when I'm done, they all bleed" is funnier. Funnier to you. The girls just tend to cry. They always do.

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Option 3:

Say, "But what's wrong with your anus?"

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Option 3:

Say, "But what's wrong with your anus?"

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Agreed.

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"Is it a heavy day?"

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[ QUOTE ]
Put aside all your personal preferences on this question. Only consider your preference to get laid on the second date.

So you're on a first date with a girl. The two of you have a good time and she comes back to your apartment with you. The two of you finish a bottle of white wine on your couch while, talking, flirting, and kissing. You decide you want to get it on so you ask her to come to your room. She says, "Id really love to, and i will if you want, but I'm on my period." In order to get you laid on the second date (when she's not on her period)...

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She already said I could have it. So, I'm taking it. If she doesn't want me to do it to her again solely because I did her on her period WHEN SHE LET ME, then I don't have time for women that can't say what they mean. Oh wait, that would mean I didn't have time for any woman on the face of the Earth, so I guess I'd have to wait until the next date.

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No, I dont. Do you people have any idea how hard blood is to get out of your sheets? (and towels never ever work)

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Say, "But what's wrong with your anus?"

Again guys, "Are you bleeding from your ass? Would you like to?"

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There is a really good chance she is not on her period. Seriously, I'm surprised this hasn't even been mentioned.

In any event she's testing you to see how you react (she may not be conscious of it, however). Don't make a big deal out of it. Just say "I understand" and take her to your bedroom anyway. If you can ramp her up sexually something good will happen whether she's on her period or not.

Yugoslav

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The correct answer would be "can you borrow me 50 bucks for a hooker then?".

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If you get the green light to bang a girl you want to bang, you should pretty much always take it. Once you've banged her, it's a lot easier to bang her the next time. If you wait, she might change her mind between date #1 and date #2, or you might have to repeat the whole seduction.

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meh, this poll is stupid. Like everyone has said you go to your room anyway to fool around and to get her to blow you. If you dont mind [censored] her while shes bleeding, then do so, if you dont want to, them just quit after the hummer. She obviously wants to [censored] so no matter what you do you are getting some the second date anyway.

and like mason said, most chicks I know are horny as hell when they are on their period. I know tons of girls who actually have a "period" towel they use on the bed just for [censored] while on the rag.

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I would probably say "Who said you were gettin any?"

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Take her to your room and see where it goes. Tease her gently about it. Or "It's okay baby, I have red sheets"

Guids - hydrogen peroxide the spot and rub.

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"i prefer syrup"

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"If you're on your period, I'm in your colon."

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Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

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What? Almost every girl I know is horny as hell and wants to get their brains [censored] out when they're on their period.

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Why is it that so often, you deliver in these threads, Mason?

These guys are acting like she has incontinent bowel syndrome with a side order of projectile diarrhea.

It's just her period and, as our man Mason pointed out, she's very likely insanely horny.

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"Is it a heavy day?"

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Agreed.

I can't believe I didn' t see 5-8 responses of "chicks are horny, but self conscience on the rag".....because its mostly true if they are not crampy.

If you've never woken up with dried menses crusting one of your eyes shut you should be ashamed.

Regards,
Woodguy

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If you've never woken up with dried menses crusting one of your eyes shut you should be ashamed.

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Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

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What? Almost every girl I know is horny as hell and wants to get their brains [censored] out when they're on their period.

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I've found this to be true as well

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Wow...the first one will get you labelled as a weirdo creep by a good portion of girls.

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What? Almost every girl I know is horny as hell and wants to get their brains [censored] out when they're on their period.

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I've found this to be true as well

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How many people have actually run into this situation, where the chick says "I want to, but I'm on my period"? I've had a girl just say "No I don't want to go any further right now" after getting topless, and I've had girls wait till basically we're about to get into the hot and heavy to mention it and by then she's either gone down on you or you're gonna SIIHP no matter what cause not even an ice bath will cool things down.

What chick calls it out well before it gets too late to turn back?

- C -

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a chick thats planning on giving it up...and doesn't want your shock a the blood on your fingers to ruin it

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Unless you think she's really on her period and can be coaxed into moving further, the "keep kissing her" advice is probably bad.

Tell her its ok. Stop kissing her, remove yourself from her, distance yourself a little bit. If the lights are off, turn them on. Flick on the tv or something else to take your attention away from her. Basically just end any kissing, touching, physical contact you were having. Don't totally ignore her, because then she'll think you're a bitter jerk only out to screw her. Rather, make it clear that you respect her wish and are done with doing anything sexual. You don't need to say anything to do this. She was making out with you, she was enjoying it, she's aroused, she wanted to continue. If she wasn't, or she just hangs out for a little and leaves, you definitely weren't getting laid anyway. Wait until she tries to kiss you again. If it takes a long time you might be screwed and need a new plan, so if she tries to move close to you again or kiss you just go with it and hope for the best. If it doesn't take a long time, push her away again, maybe comment on how you thought she didn't want to go any further. If she says that she does, or just her next attempt, this is when you try to get her to go back to your room, and go from there.

I've been in similar situations in the past and have had no idea what to do and totally [censored] myself, so don't make that mistake

-Jeff

edit- if you think I'm an idiot and don't know what I'm talking about and think that you do, please post any situation you were in similar to OP's, since I'm sure someone with your experience runs into this type of last minute resistance all the time, and explain what you did, and why it worked. I would definitely be interested to hear another detailed story.

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that is the worse advice i ever heard on anything

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that is the worse advice i ever heard on anything