Am I a stalker??
 

So iam with this girl for about the last year and a half.. we begin to have some problems. i guess we re not offically together anymore. but iam still into her dont want to give up just yet. the last 2 - 3 weeks she hasnt really given me the time of day. she tells me "iam really busy i cant be here for you 24 hours a day" which she was (just got a 2nd job) but i suspect something is up. she does however, find the time to tell me that her old boyfriend called and said he was sorry for the [censored] he had done in the past. she also assures me theres no way she would go down that road again. they had a really bad abusive relationship. so i take a drive by his house on my home from the bar one night and of couse her car is there. so obv i tell her what a bitch she is, and she says she cant believe i would do something like that? and now considers me some crazy stalker.

Maybe Iam?

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

You are, but she is trying to take the focus off of her [censored] another guy and put it on you being a stalker.

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She isn't with you right? So she can do whatever the hell she wants.

If she wants to play the "I am really busy" game then just let her be. Return the favor. Don't answer her calls. Let her chase you. Go out and mack other women. Then have hot secks.

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She isn't with you right? So she can do whatever the hell she wants.

If she wants to play the "I am really busy" game then just let her be. Return the favor. Don't answer her calls. Let her chase you. Go out and mack other women. Then have hot secks.

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Re: Am I a stalker??
 

The only difference between being a stalker and being romantic is the amount of attraction a women has towards you.

In your case she has obviously lost (or never had) any real attraction for you.

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why are you stalking a [censored]?

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No [censored]. and why do i care what the hell she thinks.

i guess cause iam a loser and cant get chicks.

i just figured after a year and half iam entitled to know whats going on. and if shes not going to just tell me i need to find out for myself. seems like normal behavior to me. which is why iam a stalker i guess.

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i just figured after a year and half iam entitled to know whats going on. and if shes not going to just tell me i need to find out for myself.

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Well, now you know, quit stalking her and move on.

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Pics of the chick who treated you so wrongly?

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Before, you were sort of iffy on the stalker thing depending on which side of the fence you wanted to look at things from.

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i just figured after a year and half iam entitled to know whats going on. and if shes not going to just tell me i need to find out for myself. seems like normal behavior to me. which is why iam a stalker i guess.

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After this quote though, you clearly are a stalker.

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Pics of the chick who treated you so wrongly?

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This is a really good idea that I get behind 100%, just like her ex is getting behind her 100% when he sticks his manhood in her pee-hole.

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You are, but she is trying to take the focus off of her [censored] another guy and put it on you being a stalker.


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She isn't with you right? So she can do whatever the hell she wants.

If she wants to play the "I am really busy" game then just let her be. Return the favor. Don't answer her calls. Let her chase you. Go out and mack other women. Then have hot secks.

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i guess cause iam a loser and cant get chicks.


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Re: Am I a stalker??
 

I don't think you're a stalker.

But OOT likes the hard knock life motif, so stop being a pussy and ignore this ho.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

Yes, you are a stalker; deal with it, try to mature beyond it (we all did it, too), and move on; yes, she is a lying biatch, and she treated you like crap; deal with it, try to mature beyond it, and move on...

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So iam with this girl for about the last year and a half.. we begin to have some problems. i guess we re not offically together anymore. but iam still into her dont want to give up just yet. the last 2 - 3 weeks she hasnt really given me the time of day. she tells me "iam really busy i cant be here for you 24 hours a day" which she was (just got a 2nd job) but i suspect something is up. she does however, find the time to tell me that her old boyfriend called and said he was sorry for the [censored] he had done in the past. she also assures me theres no way she would go down that road again. they had a really bad abusive relationship. so i take a drive by his house on my home from the bar one night and of couse her car is there. so obv i tell her what a bitch she is, and she says she cant believe i would do something like that? and now considers me some crazy stalker.

Maybe Iam?

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Wait till you get married and then divorced....you are a stalker.

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Stalking is just a higher form of love. It's OK if she doesn't get it.

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I'm not so sure one driveby to satisfy your curiousity is stalking. Either way it's over. I bet he banged her HARD.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

if you have to ask...

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I don't think one isolated "drive by" instantly makes you a stalker. Keep doing it, and you attain stalker status.

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I don't think one isolated "drive by" instantly makes you a stalker. Keep doing it, and you attain stalker status.

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Agreed.
If the drive-by involves traveling, say 100 miles, you're a stalker. No free pass.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

I can't believe that you admitted to stalking her. If you're going to do it, you have to accept what you find and use it to convince yourself that she's not worth a [censored]. Throwing your findings in her face accomplishes nothing but giving her ammo.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

Assuming you are an American, there are 150,000,000 other chicks in this land for you to chase. You can find another one.

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Be sure to buy a glove that's too small.

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This is absolutely not stalking.

You're more than entitled to check to see if this woman who isn't giving your relationship closure is sporking some other dude.

It becomes stalking if you go beyond calling her out for being a nappy headed ho and start calling/texting her all the time, or continuing to reconnoiter her.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

Dude, you suck at stalking. Next time leave a note (cut out magazine letters work best) that says, "I know what you're doing."

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Jeez I usually at least have to kill a pet before they call me a stalker.

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Dude, you suck at stalking. Next time leave a note (cut out magazine letters work best) that says, "I know what you're doing."

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punctuate this with lots of skulls.

lots and lots of skulls.

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

WHY IN GOD'S NAME DO YOU SPELL "I AM" AS ONE WORD????

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

muck and move on

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Dude, you suck at stalking. Next time leave a note (cut out magazine letters work best) that says, "I know what you're doing."

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punctuate this with lots of skulls.

lots and lots of skulls.

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Don't forget the blood on the car with things written in it like "I can't live without you" and "I'll [censored] kill you" and "If I can't have you, no one can". It's sure to win her over.

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Oh...my...god... you actually let her take the focus of herself *and* allowed her to make you doubt yourself in the process? Haha?! [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

You folded your full house to her ten-high bluff.

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that's not stalking, that's betting for information. anyways [censored] her though bro, lose the one-itis and go find some other sloots to slide inside.

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everyone making poker metaphors and using PUA slang should pull their heads out of their asses, log off the library computer and get back to 4th period chemistry or wherever the [censored] you 15 year old idiots are supposed to be

Re: Am I a stalker??
 

Let's see... you're borderline obsessed with a girl that is no longer interested in you, and she's spending time with a guy that at some point in the past beat the [censored] out of her.

Sounds like you two are perfect for each other.

Seriously, though, the quicker you let go of this crazy bitch the better. Your parting line should be something like "Maybe if I had beat the [censored] out of you a few times, you'd be at my house."

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everyone making poker metaphors and using PUA slang should pull their heads out of their asses, log off the library computer and get back to 4th period chemistry or wherever the [censored] you 15 year old idiots are supposed to be

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Yeah, really, fold preflop, guys.