Beat: My girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn
 

So tonight my girlfriend and I, get into a talk about what I jack off to. After some discussion about the topic she declares that she wants me to stop watching porn while alone. She says she will come over anytime im "in the mood" however she will not be leaving right after. Her reasons behind her demands are as followed:

1. It is a monogomous relationship and I should not be looking at other naked women.

2. She is readily availible

3. I say it will be different when I am married have a family, kids, a house, car payments, etc. She says there is no difference between these bf/gf relationships and marriage except for a ring.

We have been dating for almost a year and I find this to be on the extreame side, while she finds it to be expected. She quotes "I expect you to not be getting off to other naked women while your my boyfriend."


Anyone want to comment or say something to her. Or are you on her side and has your significant other played this card as well?

Re: Beat: My girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn
 

unacceptable

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Tell her she needs to be a better or more frequent [censored] first. Then you'll stop.

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She sounds really fat.

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She says she will come over anytime im "in the mood"

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what's ur prob?

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What is unacceptable? ^^

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What is unacceptable? ^^

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Her.

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im so drunk right now and even i can spell "extreme" right

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No shes not a lard ass shes 117, 5'4, 34c, size 2 pants.

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What is unacceptable? ^^

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This

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She says she will come over anytime im "in the mood" however she will not be leaving right after.

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and this

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She says there is no difference between these bf/gf relationships and marriage except for a ring.

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Re: Beat: My girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn
 

you tell her some guy on the internet tells her to be quiet while men are talking

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I've had really naive girls play this card on me. I always "cave", but just sneak it in like I did when I was 16.

Also I cheat on them.

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I've had really naive girls play this card on me. I always "cave", but just sneak it in like I did when I was 16.

Also I cheat on them.

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I tell my girl it's either internet porn or random hookers. You decide. Then she says porn and I bang random hookers anyways. WIN WIN

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I think that the best part of doing it yourself is you can get along with your business when youre finished. However if she wants to come over you know you'll be spooning and chatting when youre finished, does anyone actually enjoy that part?

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She sounds dumb. Tell her you'll agree but only if you can siihp and she leaves or cooks something right after.

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This is so simple. Just lie to her about it.

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I'd break it off and start fresh with a girl who doesn't know how easily whipped you are. This isn't anything more than a power play on her part, but if you're even to the point where she's trying this sort of thing, you're in pretty bad shape.

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she actually cooks for me all the time. however i would be wacking off at my place where she can't cook for me.

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My gf had the same talk after 3 years. I explained to her that I am visual and I just watch other people having sex, not just other girls (which i do for real) and i need to jerk it sometimes cuz either she isn't there or im too tired etc. She is letting you hit it exclusively so some sacrifice is in order. I stopped reading the maxim,fhm type mags but continue to be able to watch porn occosionally wihtout getting bitched at. IF you don't want to deal with some [censored] just get a hooker.

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I'd break it off and start fresh with a girl who doesn't know how easily whipped you are. This isn't anything more than a power play on her part, but if you're even to the point where she's trying this sort of thing, you're in pretty bad shape.

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Whoa are you saying that IM whipped? I really dont know what that means how do i prevent this from happening i know its a bad thing fill me in quick shes now saying that i am a little bit. HEEEELP

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I think that the best part of doing it yourself is you can get along with your business when youre finished. However if she wants to come over you know you'll be spooning and chatting when youre finished, does anyone actually enjoy that part?

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i agree with this 100%. and no, i dont enjoy the spooning or chatting afterwards at all. maybe i have intimacy issues [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

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I think that the best part of doing it yourself is you can get along with your business when youre finished. However if she wants to come over you know you'll be spooning and chatting when youre finished, does anyone actually enjoy that part?

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i agree with this 100%. and no, i dont enjoy the spooning or chatting afterwards at all. maybe i have intimacy issues [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

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Sometimes I do enjoy it though i feel that wackin it gives you the freedom to not have to go through all the afterglow rituals.

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i agree with this 100%. and no, i dont enjoy the spooning or chatting afterwards at all. maybe i have intimacy issues [img]/images/graemlins/blush.gif[/img]

[/ QUOTE ]Men and women just have different psychological and physiological responses to sex.

I saw some study on why men fall asleep more often afterwards, but don't feel like googling.

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do all guys really hate that [censored]? Man sleeping with a girl in your bed is nice, and talking with girls can be fun, even dumb ones. You like to be alone after sex? Just jerk off, or get a hooker then...

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my gf demanded me to stop. i stopped for a few months. then i started again. i told her and stopped for a few more months and saw a councilor for my "addiction". i started again.

exception: she didn't believe in premaritial sex, and we were both virgins, and i was in love

so i guess pron is justified here.

if i was getting daily or bidaily sex, i dont see a need for porn.

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My gf hates it too, but she only finds out on accident (nice not clearing the cache, douche). Even when I clear the cache when I see her she knows it's because of that. So I've started to just dl pr0n now, but it gets boring fast. What it do?

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if i was getting daily or bidaily sex, i dont see a need for porn.

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just wait bro, you'll understand soon enough [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

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I never had a girl like this but if I did Id just tell her like it is man. Guys are hardwired differently than girls. If she is willing to be on call 24/7 ( that is what it takes) then Id be like [censored] porn. Id let her know though she misses one session by 20 mins then its free range and she better be happy that Im not with another chick(when ur in a relationship it is so easy to hookup with random chicks its f-ed up man).

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no way man, i totally need my porn. this is completely unacceptable.

i think whats going on here is that gf is naive, and thinks that you looking at porn is going to get you to be into other girls. im too tired to go into this, but this mentality shows how diff guys and girls work. you are ALWAYS going to be looking at other girls. question is how you stop yourself from acting i guess. pron is a good way to fulfill these fantasies

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pull your [censored] out and slap her with it imo. if she still acts up, asks questions about porn, etc, cancel that bitch.

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U NEED TO PUT YOUR [censored] FOOT DOWN!!!!!!!!!!

TELL HER YOU ARE MONOGAMOUS AND YOU WILL WATCH WHATEVER THE [censored] U WANT CAUSE YOUR A MAN. THEN OFFER SOME INSANE COMPROMISE LIKE THE HOOKER THING.

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Wow, you will have thoroughly earned your red wings if you agree to this.

Really though, it's rediculous for her to 'request' this. If she can't accept it then you really need to move on. Seems like a silly thing to break a relationship over, but do you really want to spend years with a girl who gets jealous over something so stupid? Would you be jealous if she admitted to having a fantasy about somebody else while masturbating? Would you demand she stopped having such fantasies and masturbating since you're ready to go anytime? It's stupid. Move on.

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Btw, how old are you - how old is she? Is this a first serious relationship for both of you?

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do all guys really hate that [censored]? Man sleeping with a girl in your bed is nice, and talking with girls can be fun, even dumb ones. You like to be alone after sex? Just jerk off, or get a hooker then...

[/ QUOTE ]I like to lay at least 12 inches away from a girl afterwards. After 10 minutes or so we can touch again, but no talking.

Re: Beat: My girlfriend wants me to stop watching porn
 

DON'T TELL HER ABOUT IT

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1. Tell her you need to watch the porn because you are into some really deviant [censored] (a2m, donkey punching, etc.) and convince her to perform it as a compromise.

2. Continue to watch porn anyway.

3. Profit.

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Pornstars are probably 100x hotter than your gf. Just tell her that.

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Just beat off to gay porn or guys jerking off. Then you aren't cheating on her w/ other women.

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Just beat off to gay porn or guys jerking off. Then you aren't cheating on her w/ other women.

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lol this is good. just buy like 2 gay pornos, and make sure she catches you watching them. then tell her its either this or the reg porn

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Dont tell her nothing just get rid of her. Do you understand that woman are 1 million times worse when you marry them and if she is already this big of a pain in the ass you will have your hands full. Get rid of the bitch now homie. This [censored] aint no joke. Who wants to put up with nonsense like that.