Beat? Dating a chick with 3 kids...
 

I'm dating this cute little Asian chick who just split up with her jackass husband and has 3 kids (2yo, 10yo and 16 yo(!). Husband is a degenerate gambler and she/he haven't even spoken to each other in about a year. She's 33 yo, DAMN cute and one of the nicest women I have ever been with. Yeah, we've slept together already.

She's leaving him next week and will have her own place. The kids will be staying with him, for now. They may be with her eventually....."It's up to the kids who they want to stay with."

I've never dated a woman with kids. Am I setting myself up misery here? I like her a lot, but......the baggage. [img]/images/graemlins/smirk.gif[/img]

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pics?

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Not yet...sorry. [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

The physical thing is not an issue at all. I think she's "damn cute" instead of "f*ck me! hot", most of my budies think she's "hot". Nice bod, face, and poon. Her breasts area a bit small, but she's Asian for crying out loud. She has indicated an interest in MAYBE getting "enhanced". [img]/images/graemlins/laugh.gif[/img]

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Please follow the instructions at the top

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kids can be lolz

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Sounds like she might be FOS. She seems to tell you anything you want to hear.

Seriously, what mother wouldn't want the kids and what court would leave the kids with a degenerate gambler?

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If she really doesn't care about having her children with her then it's an instamuck.

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I'm dating this cute little Asian chick who just split up with her jackass husband and has 3 kids (2yo, 10yo and 16 yo(!). Husband is a degenerate gambler and she/he haven't even spoken to each other in about a year.........

.....She's leaving him next week and will have her own place.....

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These 2 sentences make no sense.
There is no way she could be living in the same house and not have spoken to him in a year.

I see MANY troubles ahead for you, my friend, if you even consider going this route.

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This definitely sounds like trouble. I'll bet she is a little fobby as well, making this all the more difficult/awkward.

EDIT: Also since this is BBV4Life, there is probably a good 60% chance that you are also a degen gambler.

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Is the 16 year old a girl?

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a degenerate gambler

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and you say this on 2+2.... [img]/images/graemlins/frown.gif[/img]

Anyway, brag, asians are hot. I'm almost jealous. I've never dated a non asian, and I'm european! [img]/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img] So way to go, hang on to her.

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Is the 10 year old a girl?

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Is the...never mind.

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Is the...never mind.

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A boy?

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Juanez,

Have your fun and play around, but don't get attached. This chick sounds like a lot of trouble.

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I think if you feel you gotta ask this question of someone else, then deep down, you already know the answer.

So ya, you're probably in for a world of trouble. Her husband is big gambler (many asians are) and now she's hooking up with another gambler?....

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Fold preflop, obv. No strategy in BBV4Life.

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i 'dated' a girl with 4 kids before. (she was 28, i was 22)

although it wasn't a long-term thing, i was never really around the kids, and it usually was just a late-night, 'i have a babysitter tonight can i come over?' kinda deal...

but yeah, lots of drama...

thing was, she gave the best blowjobs i've ever gotten, and she had the prettiest pussy i've ever seen...

*shrug*

2 baby daddy's, and 4 kids under the age of 12...so yeah, it was just a late-night thing..i think she realized that i wasn't going to be raising her kids, and after that, we got along just fine..

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I feel bad for the kids to be in a situation like that.

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prop bets on if she divorces op after a week of marriage and forces him to pay child support?

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HUMP THAT BITCH!!!!1111 YEEEEAAAAAAAAHHHHHH! SECKSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

(bbv is great.)

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I think it really depends on the chick and her attitude toward the relationship between you and her kids.

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Is the...never mind.

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A boy?

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almost fell out of my chair

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Odds that she really "leaves" her husband she hasn't spoken to or seen in a year next week like OP thinks.



+ 390 Actually leaves and gets own place

- 420 Makes excuses, no leave

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GET
OUT
NOW

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her jackass husband... ...Husband is a degenerate gambler and she/he haven't even spoken to each other in about a year.

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I dont get it, you insult him, and then you compliment him. Pick one or the other, please.

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her jackass husband... ...Husband is a degenerate gambler and she/he haven't even spoken to each other in about a year.

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I dont get it, you insult him, and then you compliment him. Pick one or the other, please.

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VNH [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img] [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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i've dated your mom before.

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OP, if you're a young guy and you probably are, this isn't for you. RUN.

and listen to DB.

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OP, if you're a young guy and you probably are, this isn't for you. RUN.

and listen to DB.

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having not read a lot of this thread other than my sarcastic/witty/hilarious comment...

1) db providing sage advice? what's the world coming to?
2) there's nothing wrong with hitting and running

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2) there's nothing wrong with hitting and running

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As long as you ensure by means of a jimmy hat that you are not the father of her next mistake.

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2) there's nothing wrong with hitting and running

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As long as you ensure by means of a jimmy hat that you are not the father of her next mistake.

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well, obv.

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Run like the wind. If the kids don't end up being a pain in the ass the ex-husband will.

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Cue picture of Forrest running.

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I feel bad for the kids to be in a situation like that.

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QFT

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Well I've dated three kids before.

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I for one would care to hear SOA's opinion.

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It's still better than dating a chick with 2 balls.