Mirror flirting?
 

So my significant other reads cosmo and crap and she has this thing about mirror flirtng, basically if I am talking to someone of the opposite sex and I make a similar movement or the other person does she thinks it is flirting. Even if this is true wouldn't it be sub-concious?

So how do I prove this is BS?

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Get a new woman, this one seems like a pain in the ass.

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what you are saying is generally accepted in the psych community.

mirroring is pleasing to the person being mirrored and aotbh one is attracted to someone mirroring them

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sometimes while i look in the mirror i wonder how i could ever be with anyone besides my sexy self

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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When two people mirror each other, it just shows they are on the same page. You probably do this all the time with your gf, friends, and even your mom. Deliberately mirroring people can help you build rapport. This is a big thing in NLP. Basically if your gf thinks you're flirting with random chicks just because the two of you are making similar movements, she's psycho and you should get rid of her.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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What the f are you talking about? Oh wait, UCSB, that explains everything.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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What the f are you talking about? Oh wait, UCSB, that explains everything.

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What part do you not get? I'll try to translate it to cretin for you.

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P.S. OP, in case my original wording was too confusing, I just meant try to catch her when she is "mirroring" and then tease her about it. Hopefully she will realize how crazy she is being. Good luck.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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Why do guys come on 2+2 and pretend to be women? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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Buy her a book on NLP. If you find something where some buisness guy talks about how you should mimic customers/clients/emplyees.

Alternately you could ask her to start noticing if her friends are mirroring her.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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What the f are you talking about? Oh wait, UCSB, that explains everything.

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What part do you not get? I'll try to translate it to cretin for you.

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I understood the psycho part. I'd just like to know these "scientific facts" that mirroring isn't a form of flirting.

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When two people mirror each other, it just shows they are on the same page. You probably do this all the time with your gf, friends, and even your mom. Deliberately mirroring people can help you build rapport. This is a big thing in NLP. Basically if your gf thinks you're flirting with random chicks just because the two of you are making similar movements, she's psycho and you should get rid of her.

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Thiz sounds like the gist of this thread. Jealous girl took NLP Post on Random Internet Forum 101 and now thinks she's really in the swing of things.

This chick is dumb, yo. Dump her before she scissors off your penis in your sleep and throws it in a field, forcing you to make a Frankenpenis movie if a dog doesn't gobble it first.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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Why do guys come on 2+2 and pretend to be women? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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This post is so funny to me because I actually am a girl, but I guess I write like a guy. Whatevs.

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What the f are you talking about? Oh wait, UCSB, that explains everything.

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What the hell is wrong w/ UCSB? Where do you go to school?

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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Why do guys come on 2+2 and pretend to be women? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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This post is so funny to me because I actually am a girl, but I guess I write like a guy. Whatevs.

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Well, I'm still skeptical but unfortunately for you, there's gonna be a flood of pm's in your mail box by a bunch of lonely 2+2ers.

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Get a new woman, this one seems like a pain in the ass.

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Okay, as a girl who does crazy things myself, I hate to say this, but that is freakin' psycho!

I learned in a communications class that we mimic the movements of people we talk to, to show we are listening. Maybe Cosmo interpreted that study to mean you do it when you like someone. Either way, if she is worth it, do the reasearch and battle the Cosmo "scientfic facts" with real scientific facts. Also, maybe try to catch her when she is doing it and tease her about it being flirting. She might see how ridiculous she is being.

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Why do guys come on 2+2 and pretend to be women? [img]/images/graemlins/confused.gif[/img]

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i dont know...why do we???

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she's psycho and you should get rid of her.

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Lets face it, this broad is [censored] three ways toward the weekend. You need to run now!

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Keep mirroring other girls until you find one who's less crazy

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Keep mirroring other girls until you find one who's less crazy

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