Ex puts revealing picture on MySpace
 

Situation: My Ex of four months (Dated for 1.5 years previously) put a picture of her in a bikini from her recent Bahamas trip on her MySpace, in what appears to be an attempt to make me jealous/horny and want to get back together. (She has stated several times that she wants to try again, says she's changed, etc, etc.)

The picture is pretty hot and is affecting my baser instincts as a man. It also makes me remember more strongly the better aspects of our relationship for some reason, and as such makes me wonder if we *should* get back together. She wants to hang out tonight and I could probably just get some if I wanted, but I'm not sure that's a great idea? I still care about her and don't want to hurt her. FWIW (because you guys will undoubtedly ask) she's Asian, about 5'3" 100lbs and very cute.

What's my play?

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post under your real id and maybe you'll get a real response

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no good without pics

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***This thread is worthless without pics***

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Link? or post bikini picture.

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No answer without a link to her myspace.

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In order to give the correct advise you need to post the bikini picture here.

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nos1nos2? KKF?

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you broke up for a reason, that reason will appear again sooner or later regardless of what she says about changing

as for you could probably get some, when is this ever a bad play? moral of the story [censored] buddies rule!

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nos1nos2? KKF?

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I would expect better from KKF

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Seriously man, how can you possibly post this and not offer up the myspace page or at least rehost the picture and post it in the thread? Until I see some pictures I wish you both nothing but bad luck in relationships!

Swede

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I'm not about to post an identifying picture for her but I blocked out her face. Let me find some way to host it.

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I'm not about to post an identifying picture for her but I blocked out her face. Let me find some way to host it.

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www.imageshack.us

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God trolls aren't even mildly creative anymore

Eat [censored] and die

NT

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What makes you think this is an attempt to make you jealous/horny? Is there some sort of comment on it or something that leads you to this conclusion?

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I'm not about to post an identifying picture for her but I blocked out her face. Let me find some way to host it.

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This is acceptable. Please host on ImageShack

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What makes you think this is an attempt to make you jealous/horny? Is there some sort of comment on it or something that leads you to this conclusion?

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Right after she posted it she sent me an IM telling me to check out her new picture... Anyway it seemed that way to me, I could be wrong.


Here's the pic:

http://i108.photobucket.com/albums/n...hs/edited2.jpg

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wow

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Did you pay for the boobies or did she have them pre-you?

Swede

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Why did you break up?

I'm sure some people on an internet forum who have no information (other than what she looks like from the neck down) about her (or you) will certainly be able to come up with the correct solution.

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They're real. They're only about a B-C.

I wasn't really looking for tailored advice. Was more wondering what others would do if they were in the situation.

But anyway, we broke up mostly because I have been a bit of a serial monogamist over the past 5 or 6 years and wanted to be single for a while.

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What kind of answers are you looking for here, OP?

Get back together if you still like her. If not, I'll date her based on her body as long as her face is at least a 5.5 and her personality is at least a 6.

And yes, of course you should bang her, especially if the alternative is J/O.

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What's wrong with bangin her out a few more times? Enjoy life.

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What, exactly, is "revealing" about this picture enough so as to inspire any kind of emotion from you. Meh, it's a pic of an Asian chick on the beach. BFD.

She's cute, tho.

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I wasn't really looking for tailored advice. Was more wondering what others would do if they were in the situation.

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I would bang her but not get back together with her. There are plenty of bitches in the sea.

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OP is leaving out a key detail here...


http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g1...rudgebitch.jpg

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Why did you break up in the first place? Did you initiate it? If so she make be trying to make you jealous?

If she initiated, she may be trying to make you horny/want to get back together.

Did she have a myspace account while you were dating or did she create it recently (and/or after you broke up?)

All of the above are relevant factors in determining the nature of the scenario.



p.s. If the guy in the background is named Dexter St. Jock she is just trying to make you jealous!


http://img212.imageshack.us/img212/7351/bahef5.jpg

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So, how long has your non-serial monogamist stint lasted?

PS - If you're talking about getting back into a relationship (which you are), horniness is not a valid reason (unless that's how you roll).

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What makes you think this is an attempt to make you jealous/horny? Is there some sort of comment on it or something that leads you to this conclusion?

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Right after she posted it she sent me an IM telling me to check out her new picture... Anyway it seemed that way to me, I could be wrong.


Here's the pic:

http://i108.photobucket.com/albums/n...hs/edited2.jpg

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ARE YOU FOR SCUBA?
http://www.echonews.com/1004/images/...came_polly.jpg

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We broke up about 4.5 months ago. I haven't really come to any conclustions. Some days I'm glad I'm single; others I think it'd be nice to be in a relationship again.

I'm extremely wishy-washy, if you can't tell.

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im going to need to see a frontal shot or a better shot of the breastesses before I can offer any awesome advice

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We broke up about 4.5 months ago. I haven't really come to any conclustions. Some days I'm glad I'm single; others I think it'd be nice to be in a relationship again.

I'm extremely wishy-washy, if you can't tell.

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The correct answer is to stay with her until you find someone better. What the hell is wrong with guys these days?

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Why would you assume she put it up there just for your sake?

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Well I used to have some great pictures/videos (catch my drift) but I honorably deleted them when we broke up. I know. I'm an idiot.

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Why would you assume she put it up there just for your sake?

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Dids- she made an effort to make sure I saw it right after she posted it. And she's done other stuff to try to get me to want to get back together.. about a month before that she e-mailed me a .zip with all of our AIM conversations from the beginning of the relationship (it started off long-distance [IL-OH], and she saved all the stuff from when she was at work, etc). That part actually freaked me out a little.

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Hi NOS

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Further study reveals that she has a new boyfriend...

http://i97.photobucket.com/albums/l2...udgebitch2.jpg

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I have another name on this site, but no one knows me. I'm posting as this so internet searches for my other name wouldn't bring this thread up.

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hahhahahh this raptor christ thing continues to be awesome

-Al

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We broke up about 4.5 months ago. I haven't really come to any conclustions. Some days I'm glad I'm single; others I think it'd be nice to be in a relationship again.

I'm extremely wishy-washy, if you can't tell.

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The correct answer is to stay with her until you find someone better. What the hell is wrong with guys these days?

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very true. this is what girls do - there is a reason for this.