Would you be ok with your gf going skinny dipping with guys?
 

GF wants to go skinny dipping with a group of 2-3 guys and 2-3 girls. One of the guys is her ex-bf. You are not concerned in the slightest bit of anything happening. If it's a possibility, it's a very very remote one. Would you be ok with this?

I would NOT be ok with other guys seeing her wet and naked and that's pretty much the only thing that would bother me.

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This is a joke, right? She's already cheating or it's going to come eventually.

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i voted yes just because i'd want my bf to be ok with it if i wanted to do that.

i'd vote no the other way around though. [img]/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]

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Only if neverwin got to see her.

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This is a joke, right? She's already cheating or it's going to come eventually.

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No and I'm not concerned with it in the slightest. It's not a matter of trust.

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Polyamory is king

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Not a matter of trust? What's the psychological objective to be around a x-bf or a group of guys naked swimming around in a pool?

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dude, shes already went skinny dipping and took it deep afterward. only times i have gone skinny dipping are improptu spur of the moment decisions to do so. planning on going skinny dipping with a bunch of friends just sounds bizarre to me, unless, yah, lets go to the lake/pool, and get crunked up and skinny dip or whatever aka, orgi

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They are breaking into a pool and going swimming. She said there was a possibility of them skinny dipping and she would go along with it.

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Im sorry, but you are in denial.

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Or I just have a close trusting relationship with her?

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Im sorry, but you are in denial.

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I think you might be wrong on this. She's being very honest with him. It's a gray area though. She may have the best intentions but simply not realize what kind of problems her actions will cause.

This is a very gray area though.

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Or I just have a close trusting relationship with her?

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then why make this post?

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Let me reiterate. I am not concerned about her cheating on me. I just don't want other guys to see her wet and naked. She doesn't seem to understand that concept either. She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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we need to see nude pictures to help you prove your point

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What does someone have to gain by going swimming naked with the opposite sex? Friends of the opposite sex can possible do this for fun or whatever, but can you honestly say that if you (a guy) go skinny dipping with a girl you have no desire whatsoever to hook up with her? What else is there to gain, besides obviously seeing a naked girl? Whether she may admit it or not, deep down she may have hidden intentions.

She may say she will simply "go along with it." But what does she stand to gain by doing so?

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I don't think you can, really; not reasonably, anyway.
If you two have the kind of relationship that you describe, then strutting around nude ("n00d," if you like) in front of her friends really isn't something you can try and legislate.

I, of course, would never be this trusting, but then I'm 23 in September and STILL always [censored] up a good thing over and over, so what do I know?

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I take it

a) You're not going to be there
b) You don't really know these people she's going with

Would she like it if you went skinny dipping with a bunch of chicks(attractive that she doesn't know) without her? Yeah, right.

I wouldn't put her in that situation, so I wouldn't expect to be put in that situation.

This isn't a gray area for me.

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I would NOT be ok with other guys seeing her wet and naked and that's pretty much the only thing that would bother me.

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Then she should respect your wishes as you g/f and not go. If she pushes it, she really doesn't give a rip about you. Look at what she is balancing here. Skinnydipping v. keeping her b/f. Pretty simple.

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I can tell you for sure she wouldn't care if I did it. Again, we do trust each other a lot so she wouldn't be worried about me doing anything and who cares if they see my dick? It's not like girls are big pervs who want to see guy's dicks.

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we need to see nude pictures to help you prove your point

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not just no, but [censored] NO!

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I can tell you for sure she wouldn't care if I did it. Again, we do trust each other a lot so she wouldn't be worried about me doing anything and who cares if they see my dick? It's not like girls are big pervs who want to see guy's dicks.

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Bernie, normally I would agree with you (on this situation and any other post about the ladies you make). However, this changes things a lot. I was very rebellious and very loyal when I was in highschool/undergrad. I've never cheated on anyone. However, if a girl told me not to skinny dip I would definitely skinny dip. It's just the way I was.

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It's not like girls are big pervs who want to see guy's dicks.

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You must have not met alot of girls..

Ask yourself why she would choose to be naked around a x-bf and a group of guys. Ive made my point and Im sad that some of you dont see it.

If you have this much trust, you must not ever been hurt by dishonesty before. Humans are not very trustworthy people, no matter how close you think you are to them.

Perhaps Im just bitter or paranoid.

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If you have this much trust, you must not ever been hurt by dishonesty before. Humans are not very trustworthy people, no matter how close you think you are to them.

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Find better humans.

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Shared an apt with three women for a summer in college. Two of them had BFs that were in college in another state. We went skinny dipping a few times late at night, and nothing ever happened. Very disappointing.

Of course, if they had been willing...

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Just dump her man. She's a slut. When she comes and asks you a f'd up question like that, it's downhill from her. Get rid of her. You are better off alone.

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OR , tell her you have no problem with her going, in fact, you are coming with her and bringing beer and while she's in the water, you are giving cunnilingus to another girl.

Remember in Terminator 2, where Schwarzenegger did that voice over the phone and asked that kid's parents how ralphie was ? They said he was fine even though he was barking. He hung up the phone and said that his parents were already dead.

Well, if she's asking you this question, there's about a 80 % chance she's already cheated on you.

I met a girl in college and I guess she decided that she wasn't going to suck my dick but instead was going to be friends with me. I knew she was considering sucking me off because of how she acted and stuff but she didn't like my personality so decided I was the guy she told secrets to. Well, she told me how many guys she was screwing. It turned out that she was screwing about 4 guys at the same time and gave me locations, too. She had a guy back home and she was doing another guy who was older and had his own place or something. One month later, she is getting married to the guy back home and is pregnant. LOL. Now how F'd up is that ? She comes off as a nice girl and I wouldn't have suspected of her of all this. She looked clean. I bet good money the guy back home knew nothing.

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Meh. Mine has a few male friends with whom I wouldn't have a problem, but I know them all and none of them are her ex. If it's a dude I don't know, no chance, forget it. And if she had to ask me in advance, again, no. That's kind of weird but it makes sense if you think about it. Because it signifies there is doubt in her mind and that it was planned in advance, which is a bit off. Whereas if she told me afterwards that she went skinny dipping with certain male friends, I wouldn't think much of it.

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you are good.

I'm not sure I agree on the asking in advance thing. Well not if I was asking anyway. It's not absolute although I will admit you are probably right about that more often than you are wrong.

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you are good.

I'm not sure I agree on the asking in advance thing. Well not if I was asking anyway. It's not absolute although I will admit you are probably right about that more often than you are wrong.

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Very read dependent. I know the old lady very well and have a lot of confidence in her. And she knows I can read her like a book. It goes both ways, too - she can pick up when something is off. If I was going skinny dipping I would never ask in advance. I'd bring it up later, in a humorous context, since it would undoubtedly be spur of the moment.

However, this is one of those, "This line is only effective if you are a very good player, so the OP should probably avoid it" type situations we see in Mid-High.

NT

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Let me reiterate. I am not concerned about her cheating on me. I just don't want other guys to see her wet and naked. She doesn't seem to understand that concept either. She thinks it doesn't matter if people see her naked because she's not doing anything with them. How do I make her understand?

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you sound like me a couple years ago. theres nothing wrong with her showing some skin when she wants too. if you dont like this then you need to get another G/F one that has the same values as you.

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Shared an apt with three women for a summer in college. Two of them had BFs that were in college in another state. We went skinny dipping a few times late at night, and nothing ever happened. Very disappointing.

Of course, if they had been willing...

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They probably thought you were gay.

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Need to post pics. If she's a fatty, then I wouldn't want her to go to save the other people from the horror, but ultimately I wouldn't care if she went. However, if she's a HB9 or better, then I wouldn't want other people to even catch a glimpse of her.

Pics.

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She has a very nice body and DD breasts. No pics. I know she's checked these forums once before and I have a semi-crazy other girl I had a fling with who DOES read my posts. She's posted here before.

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Depends what your long term plans with her are and what the setting is. If I am there and comfortable with the people I don't really care.

If she is on her own and I find out about it later, then I have some questions.

As for her ex being there, that probably does not make a difference. As he probably not only has seen her naked, but also made her do things to him that you could only dream of.

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As long as she's comin home with me at the end of the night, [censored] it.

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No way I'd be OK with that.

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My ex never understood that guys have non plutonic intentions almost all the time. Like paying for her food or wanting to watch a movie alone at his house and so forth... so I wasnt a fan of any of that stuff...this would be way too much for me, but then again im the jealous type

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ive never done it, but i think of sd'ing as a sexual thing, not a thing i do w. a bunch of friends. so, no i don't think its cool... but i guess if yall didn't see it in a sexual lite then itd be different.

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ive never done it, but i think of sd'ing as a sexual thing, not a thing i do w. a bunch of friends. so, no i don't think its cool... but i guess if yall didn't see it in a sexual lite then itd be different.

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There isn't anything all that sexual about skinny dipping most of the time, even though those doing it usually hope there will be.

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