My issue w/ her post was simply that she wrote all this stuff about the concerns that women have re: men and how easy it is to get freaked out and stuff, but then embarks on a cross country road trip w/ some Internet dude and after a brief time with him quickly moves on to some other Internet dude. Doesn't make any sense to me and as you say seems like a backhanded jab at Cardo after this stuff was supposedly resolved.
I totally agree.
Calling a guy a "stalker" is almost as damaging to his reputation as calling him a "rapist". Women know that calling a guy a stalker is a great way to get everyone on her side. It's a trump card that certain women use way too often.